actually i got a problem here.i still study and being surrounded by a lot of friends.my problem here sometimes i fell i too lonely.for them (my friends) as if i nothing even how hard i try to help them a lot.and sometimes i being left...when i being alone i dont know what to do.and sometimes i feel angry with them...i think they being friend with me unsincerely..
2007-02-05 06:23:24 · 5 answers · asked by truanta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know what you are saying. You feel like your friends just want something of you and are not really there for you. i understand. i have been there. It is part of why i do not have anyone i consider to be a friend now. i have people i talk to, but i have learned to be happy being alone. i write, sketch, meditate. Try becoming comfortable with yourself. Take a walk alone...eat at a restaurant alone (take a book or newspaper or something). i like to just people-watch. i wonder where they came from and what they will do when they leave. Learn to like who you are without validation from other people. It is liberating! Best wishes!
2007-02-05 06:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question .usally many people work on the same problem . dear the problem. having friends is good. but good frind is important in life be selective in choosing u r friends and study them and judge them he is ur friend when u r frequecy mathches with him. then when u belive u can totally trust him u can share everything with them. u are good at heart so u will get a good friend be selective towards u r friend but i dont mean not to be friendly with all. this make u way from lonely ness and other thing is u some time feel that u r friends are unsincer that was not accepable. u can get a help when u ask them.let them know what u r and u r situation they u can say they are sincer or not. be proud that u can help other and feel happy that u can slove out u r own problem with out anybody help.
dont worry be peace full
2007-02-05 14:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by bhargavi y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you know that not every friend in need is a friend in deed?all you have to do is differenciate the meaning and see the "need" and "deed".I believe friends make us happy not lonely or if they can not they cry with us if they cant help us stop crying.be there to hold us if they can not stop us from falling.Friendship comes from the heart not by doing something for someone,If you r feeling they aint sincere,talk it out a friend will always tell you if u r on the right track or not,face them and tell them how you feel if you do consider them your friends.all in all trust no one but yourself,so you can trust others.thats what friendship is based on.all the best.
2007-02-05 14:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by tto7aao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should find a different set of friends that dont make you feel that way! or maybe you should confront them (your friends now) about the problem and if they respond in a positive way then they really do want to be your friend but if they blow it off then there were never your friend from the start.
2007-02-05 14:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by js_scooby123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to find a good friend, but one will come along sometime. The ppl we call friends r just companions. You'll soon find a person that will suit ur needs and keep ur company. Its not easy to find, but it'll happen
2007-02-05 14:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by #1hotgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋