It was her second time having sex and its been 3 das now and she is complaining to me all the time her stomach hurts, its kinda getting annoying and i dont know if she is doing it for attention or what. But i dont see how her stomach would be hurting other than me doin her ard or something, I dont see the possibility of being pregnant and she keeps on freakin sayin i thinnk im preganant. Why would her stomach be hurting?
2007-02-05 06:12:13 · 13 answers · asked by Helpfuldoc 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You've taken a girl, violated her, and are unconcerned about her pain.... hmm if I were her father, a shotgun would be looking real sweet by now.
2007-02-05 06:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my attempt to answer I have some questions. You say it was her 2nd time (ever, or with you), and how long between the 1st and last time? If it's been awhile then maybe she is pregnant. Your stomach is located roughly between your left breast and your belly button, higher then most people think, is this where her pain is? Pain is often caused by fear and anxiety so the best thing you can do is offer to go with her to her Dr. or a Planned Parenthood clinic and get information, she should have a full exam and the two of you can decide on what type of protection and birth control is right for you.
2007-02-05 06:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by kmv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You sound faaaar too young to be having sex.
First off, sex results in babies. You can go on for a long time, but sooner or later sex will get you a baby. No matter what kind of protection you use.
Second, when a girl has sex the stress of thinking she's pregnant, and the guilt of having had sex when she's grown up being told its wrong before marriage, makes her body ACT like its pregnant and convinces her she is.
For now, stop having sex, grow up a little more before you become another statistic, and educate yourself as much as possible about your body, her body, and all the many ways to prevent babies.
2007-02-05 06:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes after sex my stomach hurts like cramps because air gets forced in there and causing my stomach to hurt for awhile. Is she complaining right after sex of all the time? If she is complaining all the time tell her to go to the doctors. If it's just after sex try to do it easy instead of so hard. Hope I helped
2007-02-05 06:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by ADNAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes, if you are really big it doesnt matter if its up down side to side hard soft or whatever!! I hurt for a flippen week and then the 2nd time i couldnt even freakin walk for 4 days!!! There is always a chance to get prego.. but there would be really really bad problems going on if she was hurting like that.. i dont think thats it!! Go to faqfarm.com and ask they will answer in a couple of days and it will be the right answer!! No BS
2007-02-05 06:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I'm a chick, and I know that occasionally sex DOES HURT. It isn't her stomach that's hurting; it's her female parts. There are nerves all up in there, and if you're hitting them the wrong way, yes, it CAN HURT. I highly doubt she is pregnant, but if she honestly feels she is, she needs to take a home pregnancy test.
2007-02-05 06:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
psycosematic... if it really hurt, dont you think she'd go to the doctors?? i know i would... if she thought she was pregnant, um wouldnt you get a test?? (try the dollar store, their cheap and just as effective, so she cant use that excuse). Sounds to me like she wants attention. If she THINKS her stomach hurts, it will. Just like when you call in sick from work when you really not, dont you seem to feel kind of sick afterwards. Saying and Doing are two different things... she needs to DO something about it if she is serious. Oh and your stomach doesnt hurt when you are pregnant.,
2007-02-05 06:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
there could be many different reasons for this. Like you said, she could be making it up. She could have a bacterial infection, urinary tract infection, an STD, etc. The best thing to do is go to a doctor and get checked out. That would be the best thing to do.
2007-02-05 06:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go see her doctor. It's the only way she might be able to find out why her stomach is hurting her.
2007-02-05 06:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be inflammation caused by chlamydia that kind of inflammation leads abdominal pain . You should see a doctor immediately with your gf cause if she has disease you have it too . And in most cases symptoms are rare in men cause we have stronger bodies and immune systems with help of more testosterone
2007-02-05 06:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go in and see a Doctor lf lt`s hurting that bad. don`t keep on complaining about lt. lf lt gets that bad go sit in a nice hot steamy bath and soak for a while. this normally helps
2007-02-05 06:21:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋