I'm high maintenence so I NEED more than one husband, He WANTS another wife, there is a distinction....
Isn't there?
2007-02-05 05:32:42 · 32 answers · asked by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, I get what your saying. So you won't mind if I just date him and not want to marry him, right?
2007-02-05 05:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Viviana 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't know the meaning of the word "need". Or you are twisting around phrases to satisfy it's meaning.
You want certain things, but no matter how great those wants are they will still be only wants, not needs. In order to satisfy those wants, however, certain conditions need to be met.
But the same holds true for your husband. He wants certain things that can't be satisfied by you alone. So in order for them to be satisfied he would need another woman.
This is the only way the word "need" applies here, and it applies the same way for both of you. So it would be hypocritical of you to think it applies differently for you.
2007-02-05 05:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two both want another partner in your lives-there is nothing wrong with that. Providing the fact that you two both agree on having an open marriage with another husband/wife team.
2007-02-05 08:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are. There is no distinction.
I think you missed it. You don't need more than one husband any more than he needs another wife. Sounds to me like you both are not geting what you want from the other.
2007-02-05 05:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Titainsrule 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt call you a hypocrite! do you know the meaning of hypocrite. i feel you dont need another husband, but if that man isn't givin you what you want, then you need to find someone who can give you everything you need. but you know material things can't make you happy right ? it's all a cover up
2007-02-05 05:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Monique Jackson 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you NEED more than one husband, huh? if you get another partner, so should he. and if you don't like it, how do you think he feels? it goes both ways. there is not a disctintion. and to answer your question, we are all hypocrites in some form.
2007-02-05 05:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's no distinction. Fair is Fair. If you are high maintenance get a job or a BETTER job.
2007-02-05 05:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is dfinitely a distinction between needing and wanting
2007-02-05 05:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need more than one husband?! Sounds like you need a JOB, not a man. Oh, by the way, bigamy is illegal unless you become a mormon.
2007-02-05 05:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by blondee 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is not get married and agree to have an open relationship.
2007-02-05 05:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋