My X has advised me that they have been planning on moving to south Texas. Where I will be moving to. My girls are 13 and 5.
2007-02-05 05:28:58 · 9 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
damn you're hot baby
2007-02-05 06:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tirya 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well look at in a different light..you make a career move to improve the quality of not only your life but your children as well..you can still be a great dad and see your kids even if you are far away....plane rides chat online webcams phone calls letters ...lol@babymama that word just cracks me up
2007-02-05 05:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how often you see them now and how often you would be able to see them if you were distant. If being distant wouldn't really change your daily involvement in their lives, then OK. There's always phone calls and email. Heck, you could be MORE involved by email than in person if they're like most teens. On the other hand, if you are a daily part of their lives now, then you absolutely should not let yourself be separated from them for any reason! Abandonment issues are HUGE for girls and impact all of their future relationships and behaviors with men.
2007-02-05 05:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Abigail 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you don't take the job, and your ex eventually moves to south Texas...then where will you be? regretting you didn't take a job like that when you had the chance. i bet you're not happy in your current job either.
So take the job, and keep in touch with your girls as best you can until they move closer. until then...get a web cam...send them gifts....kids love to write and recieve letters, Visit whenever you can.
just my opinion.
2007-02-05 05:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, the youngsters will resent you for no longer being there for them. My mom merely up and left my father quicker or later to take a much better pastime in Texas (we lived in Pennsylvania). She left me and my brother there with our Dad (i change into 8 yrs and my brother change into 3 yrs on the time). She suggested that it change right into a much better threat and he or she needed a "more effective" existence. do not get me incorrect our Dad change into the finest, notwithstanding it damage lots no longer having our mom there. rather me, for the reason that i'm a lady, i really had to have her there as I matured. i'm 27 yrs previous now and that i nevertheless hate her for it and we've little to no courting in any respect. your toddlers come first, continuously, they're your maximum major and rewarding pastime. Be there for each thing they do and for all and multiple of those "first" moments, they are going to love you for it. My Dad, even even with the actuality that he change right into a unmarried father, not in any respect neglected no longer truly one of our video games, live performance activities, college activities, etc.... and we adore and cherish him for it to this present day. desire this helped!
2016-11-02 09:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... I would not leave my children I believe even broken families should stay close for the children's sake.
2007-02-05 05:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if this is to further your life then yes... however stay in contact. Good Luck!
2007-02-05 05:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you leave your kids behind? you asshole! why would you leave your kids? seriously take care of the things that you helped concieve even if you regret it they are yours
2007-02-05 05:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by go away 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO. I WOULD NOT.
2007-02-05 05:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋