im not sure if i want to, i guess i have fantasies about it but i think it might ruin things.
2007-02-05 05:21:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
OH MY GOD. You are my hero. If only I could find a bi girlfriend.....
2007-02-05 05:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Playing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's something you're uncomfortable with, you should not have to do it. Your girlfriend may be bisexual, but that doesn't mean she has the right to demand to be sexually active with both men and women. If a threeway isn't something you want to do, she should respect your decision, and not pressure you into it.
I'd suggest talking to her - if she doesn't know you don't really want to, she should. If she does know and still pushes the issue, that isn't fair. Relationships can be give and take when it comes to fulfilling fantasies, but it shouldn't push you beyond the limit of what you want to do. This should be something you both enjoy, not something you feel uncomfortable with from the beginning.
2007-02-05 13:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep the gf exclusive I suggest you find the biggest, smelliest, fattest, ugliest female and bring her home for the gf to scope out. Prolly only cost you 10 or 20 bucks but I'm think the gf will get turned off.
2007-02-05 13:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would luv more info about u 2 ,age, how long u 2 been together? But if u r real young and haven't been together too long, maybe u should go for it. At least she asked you,didn't go have an affair while with you. She has something to lose in this also ,you could fall for this other girl.
2007-02-05 18:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wouldn't be comfortable with her being with another guy, then it's not ok to be with another girl. she might realize that the girl is better (because we are) and leave you...
and from one bisexual to another, being bi does not mean that you have a god-given right to have both at the same time. relationships are relationships and cheating is cheating, regardless of gender.
2007-02-05 14:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by scruffy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All of the polyamory experiments I have seen ended up with someone getting hurt. Trust your instincts.
2007-02-05 13:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Robin W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have fun, call me!!
3sums are a blast, but never do them after you get married.
Have a good time, be safe and enjoy!
2007-02-05 18:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't really want to, then don't do it. Just explain to her how uncomfortable it makes you feel and that you don't want to have to share her with someone else. She'll understand if she loves you.
2007-02-05 13:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you're comfortable with and what your heart tells you. Explain your feelings to your girl friend.
2007-02-05 13:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try! 3sum both ways (another girl, another guy) and it's kind of fun -
2007-02-05 13:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋