my GF wants in the near future wants a baby girl and it will have to be via IVF the thing is just about every week when we are together watching TV and she see a show with little girls she tell me that she wants a daughter and i am fine with that wanting a daughter and ll but when i say i know i know she goes into a rage sayign i dont care even thought i told her i want the same thing. how long am i suppose to keep saying the same thing over and over again i told her when she is ready i will be also but she is always saying i want a littlle girl i want a little girl and i am ok ok i know and the rage start and yes i spoke to her about it but she said that i show not try to shut her up let her talk but i can take it any longer.
2007-02-05 04:41:49 · 4 answers · asked by GRUNT 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
She sounds a little immature. Be careful before having a baby with this woman. What if it is a boy? Will she still be ok with it? I think that you need to really think twice about having kids with her and make sure you do it after you are married.
2007-02-05 04:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's anxious. Somewhat immature. Wanting you to be just as excited as you so she knows she's not crazy.
Obviously the two of you aren't ready to follow through with this as marriage would be a nice start. Redirect her thoughts with "first things first". Start planning the steps its going to take to get you both to the place where your ready to become parents. Taking part in that might subdue her rage a bit and help her grow!
Good luck to the both of you and remember patience is important and you can never have enough when raising a child!
2007-02-05 04:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by infamoushoax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it but she sounds like kind of a nut. You should think twice about marrying her, not to mention going through the pain and expense of IVF.
2007-02-05 04:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its bad now. dont have a baby with her, it will be 1000 times worse, i would get out of that relationship
2007-02-05 04:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by meg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋