She went to the doctor and took all the meds needed, but it made her feel nauseaus. Now whenever I get close she freaks out because of what has happened twice before. Its starting to affect our relationship. I tell her that its ok, and I'm here and everything I can think of to make her at ease.. but its not a good feeling when your gf thinks "she's broken". anyone come across something similiar?
2007-02-05 04:41:13 · 7 answers · asked by xtrasupr 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Just do what your doing, be there for her and be patient. It will work out, and she will calm down. Its hard when your other half thinks she "broken" all the time. I feel that way from time to time, and I see its hard on my Husband, but it all works out.
2007-02-05 04:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Spoiled 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to make sure she is using proper hygine and if she uses tampons to make sure she is changing them frequently (even on extreamly light days). if these infections happen after you've been having sex, then she needs to shower afterwards and get any extra bacteria off of her so that it doesnt have time to get over grown. also, make sure your hands are clean before "playing" with her, as you could be contributing to it. if she uses a douche, she needs to stop that as well, as that can throw off the amount of "good" bacteria that all women have.
also, you should both be checked for STD's because those can contribute to the problem as well.
2007-02-05 04:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that if you are having sex, you are ready to be a parent, even if you are using protection. BV is very uncomfortable and she should talk to her doctor about it and how to keep from getting it. Good luck and remember, sex leads to parenthood.
2007-02-05 04:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep your junk clean and she needs to pee after having sex. I'm figuring you use condoms, so try different ones, especially ones without spermicide on them. Yogurt is good, it keeps things balanced. You just need to talk to her and wait until she feels comfortable. If the sex is good, she'll be ready when she realizes that it doesn't happen all the time.
2007-02-05 04:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Alisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to stop feeling sorry for herself. Millions of women get this and it's very treatable. Wear a condom, for Pete's sake. And she needs to be eating 1-2 small containers of yogurt a day to replenish the GOOD bacteria down there.
More info:
http://www.cdc.gov/std/BV/STDFact-Bacterial-Vaginosis.htm
2007-02-05 04:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
okay for u keep urself clean and neat and tell her that she should be brave enough and these things happen in life.
2007-02-05 04:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you both should be tested for everything! this is not normal for everyone!
2007-02-05 04:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋