2007-02-05 04:30:06 · 12 answers · asked by a5150cassini 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
first of all congratulations!!!!
tips and suggestions? let me list down whatever pops into mind
1. it would be nice to learn some tagalog words (im sure you know some)
2. you can do the mano: pressing your forehead at the back of the elderly's hand, doesnt matter if it's right or left (but you can also shake their hands instead if they are not that old)
3. you can bring small gifts to add pogi points (i think you know what pogi means), i suggest you dont give away money
4. try to eat the filipino food they will serve and say that it is delicious
5. some filipino families are still conservative and doesnt let couples sleep in the same room unless they are already married
6. i hope you get married in the philippines unless you want to take your in-laws to the US
to tell you honestly, i've spoken to a lot of americans and they always tell me that they have friends who are married to a filipina and says that they are very happy. i hope you stay happy and always in love.
2007-02-05 05:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you speak any German yet? IF not then I would suggest learning a few words and phrases so when you meet them you can say hello in their language. They always appreciate it when you try to speak their language and do not just auto speak english though many do speak English. It will make a good impression. Where in Germany? Id learn to say things like, Hello its great to meet you and I hope my stay will not be a problem or something for example. Other than that maybe bring them a gift from your city or state that is UNIQUE to where you live and give that to them and explain what it is. That will also go over well. Many Germans love to drink wine so you could always buy a bottle of Wine from your region as well to share with them all as a toast maybe. The cultural differences can be great but I love the country and going there yearly and lived there before. I am sure you will do just fine. Remember they are not as prudish as Americans are and that is important to remember. Have fun or Viel Spass!
2016-05-24 18:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations!
The culture places a big importance on respect, specially respect for the elders.
-When you first get to meet the parents and grandparents, please hold their hand in your hand and bring the back of their hand to your forehead. This is known as "pagmamano" or "mano". It does not matter if you "mano" with the left hand or the right hand. Oh, do this to a person at a time. Say: "magmano" with the mother, then the father, then the grandparent.
-Please end your sentences with "po". It is the Philippine version of "ma'am/ sir". Best to speak this way with the elders only.
-Observe the family dynamics, is the family tactile or not? Pattern your behavior based on the observations.
-Be yourself while keeping in mind the culture of the family.
Hope that you have a fun visit.
2007-02-05 04:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by tranquil 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of, learn a few words in Tagalog-you don't have to be fluent as they will be happy/amazed that you made the effort. This will score you quite a few brownie points.
I suggest:
Kamusta ka na = how are you
Maserup = tasty
Mabuhay (good as a drink toast) = long live
Bring some imported spirits, cigarettes and chocolates.
Be respectful and don't treat their shyness of not being able to speak English as rudeness. It took my mother-in-law about three years to try and hold a conversation with me.
GOOD LUCK and an advance welcome to the "foreigner married to a Filipina" club.
2007-02-05 16:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by PC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring beer and gifts. The parents will immediately ask you what you do and all that stuff. I'm filipino and i have a hard time meeting filipino parents because they have a shell at first. But if you make enough money your ok. lol
2007-02-06 09:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Joner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to learn some of the language they speak (tagalog?) before you go. That shows you are willing to exert effort to understand a culture. Study up before you go. Talk to your gf about how they are and what they expect. Be yourself but adapt to their culture and situation. Show courtesy and respect.
2007-02-05 04:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be respectful, say yes ma'am, no ma'am and so on and so forth and if the speak a different language try to learn a few words in their native tongue. good luck
2007-02-05 04:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck!
2007-02-05 09:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat everything they offer you... even when you're already full.
2007-02-05 21:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.
2007-02-05 04:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋