i have no idea what to do...
I mean ... ughh.
My boyfriend is like amazinggg.
But he goes to parties a loot and everything.
I love him dearly.
But he smokes and drinks a loot.
I have to metion that I am 14 and he is 15.
Okay.. I love him.
But all of a sudden he hung out with this guy
named Eric and he gets him to go to parties
and drink and toke up.
But that just isnt me I get embrassed when
people come up to me and tell me how
stupid my boyfriend was acting at a party.
I like another guy that is straight egde (which
means he doesnt do drugs or have sex..etc.)
What should I do I love my boyfriend but he
is just out of control and that other guy I dont
have to worry about him cheating or anything
like that.
2007-02-05 04:17:09 · 14 answers · asked by xMercedesx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Break Up with him and
find somebody else.
Or ask him what is going on
why is he changing.
and you know etc.
2007-02-05 04:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your current boyfriend how you feel and he needs to change if he wants to keep you. If he doesnt, move on to the nice guy. A guy that partys all the time isnt going to amount to much and you want someone who will provide for you in the long run. You are still young so dont get hooked on the wrong guy so early.
2007-02-05 05:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby-girl. Think for a second. Sometimes we fall in love with the IDEA of being in love! If Dewd is doing things that meke you uncomfortable, well, there's a reason that you're uncomfortable. Sometimes it's hard to tell the diff between love and infatuation. This is YOUR life. Live it and share it with people that have the same values as YOU! I know you don't understand this right now, but we can't change others into the people we wish they could be. If we want to change them, then they're not what we want, anyway, right?
2007-02-05 04:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jim W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be with your boyfriend. No girl should feel like they need to be with someone else in order to not get cheated on. You should brake up with your boyfriend whether you date another boy or not. Smoking and drinking is trouble right? If you stay with this boy you might just end up doing the same thing that he is doing and you are saying now that that is not you....I think you can do better.
2007-02-05 04:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of 4 Girls!! :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this dude is going nowhere fast. He's 15 and parties harder than a lot of adults I know. Sounds like you're not going to the parties yourself since you have to hear the information second hand. (good for you, by the way!!) Drop him and keep going!
Hang with the straigtedge guy...he sounds like a better match for you.
Good luck!
2007-02-05 04:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna get worse. It's time to get out NOW! Your BF ain't no more interested in you than a Headache. He's all about partying. He just wants a lady `round his arm. Get some self-respect. And wait until you become an Adult. before wanting to act like one.
2007-02-05 04:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him...you don't need someone who will knock you down. As for the I love him bid....you are young and you will get over it. Date the straight laced guy. After all, that is what dating is for, to figure out what you like and what you don't like in a guy. You already know what you don't like from your current boyfriend, so do yourself a favor....dump him, forgive him, forget him and move on....best wishes....
2007-02-05 04:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok for one Move ON...You are 14 and still have "wild oats to sew" for a long time.
Second of all, I've been there done that....Eventually he will bring you down and will play you for a fool, if he hasn't done it already.
Get rid of him, hang with the straight edge guy & any other guy.... You don't have to sleep with them either. Good Luck and be sure to stay true to YOURSELF.
2007-02-05 09:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by SailorMoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mudd_grip. Time to dump him and move on to the decent guy. Your boyfriend probably won't change as he gets older, and will get worse. Love him enough to let him go. You deserve much better than this.
2007-02-05 04:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by Celie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the party animal and go for the nice caring guy at 14 u dont need to party or be involved with aguy who does
2007-02-05 04:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by chick180 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date the nice guy, they tend to go farther in life and treat you better than the bad boy.
2007-02-05 04:21:05 · answer #11 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋