A man is married for 28 years, seperated for 2 1/2 years and just starting to go through is divorce proceedings. He meets a woman and is shocked at how much he feels for her and visa versa. Could he be ready for a relationship?
2007-02-05 04:16:40 · 9 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sure! enjoy, but be smart.. don't buy her a car, pay her bills, etc. :)
You are smart to ask yourself these questions, and to have waited 2 1/2. You don't have to get serious.. but you can enjoy affection and companionship. Take it slow and enjoy. You deserve it!
2007-02-05 04:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no... 28 years is a long time, and a lot of healing must be done befor ehe is ready. I wasn't really ready until 5 years after a 2.5 year relationship...beware if you are that person as he will go through the rebound phase.
2007-02-05 12:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know her better and this time be carefull. Dont commit the same mistake again. Give yourself more time. If you think you can survive a few problems together then only consider moving deeper.
2007-02-05 12:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by angela_hsiung 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, but do yourself a favor and take things slowly. Make sure it's not a rebound or you're not just attracted to the newness of it all.
2007-02-05 12:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont make mistakes as the first few times with other women is pretty much more infatuation and lust instead of love.
2007-02-05 12:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could actually be ready for one...but he might need time to recuperate from the previous marriage...so he should wait a while
2007-02-05 12:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he can be ready
2007-02-05 12:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by tdashnay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rebound yes, relationship..........no.
2007-02-05 12:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe so. to each their own.
2007-02-05 12:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋