teen and Preg plz help?

Question

I missed my cycle am fatigued unusually happy for this time of month, had cramping on the 22 of Jan which was my conception date and i am preg. Wat do i do? My mom is gonna kill me! its by a boy she hates plus its my ex and he turned into a meth addicted pot head and I no he is irresponsible. I dont want an abortion but Im so scared! Are there any programs out there that can help me in case my mother kicks me out? Im in four weeks now and gonna make a doc appt soon. Please help me *crying*

Answer 1

Talk with a school counselor. They can tell you of all the places that are available. I also know they can put you in touch with the teen mother schools so you don't have to quit school just to have your baby. Even if you mom hated the guy she will probably be better than you can imagine. Mine was. I thought she would freak and kill me but she was awesome!!! Still is. She makes me so proud. Your mom could surprise you too. Good luck

Answer 2

when i found I was preg i can on this site seeking advise and it wasnt what i wanted to hear. people were rude and judgemental.
First off, make sure u are pregnant. second tell they guy w/e. third, take some time if u need but dont take too long. tell ur mother. if she kicks u out there are places that will help, when u go for an appt ask ur doctor w/e and he will give u some info. being a teen parent is hard, u dont get to hang w/ friends or go many places. if u cannot or do not want to take care of this baby there are people who cannot have children and would be more than happy to take ur child in and love them as their own. take some time and think about what u will sacrificing if u keep it and what will happen/ how u'll feel if you dont. If u feel u cannot be a mother just yet, adoption is a good option. there are various programs and a few u can visit ur baby and their new parents.
good luck

Answer 3

Missing a cycle doesn't all ways indicate pregnancy, many things can cause you to miss a cycle. Talk with you mom no matter what or how you think she will react. If you feel that you can not tell her your self then ask some one else to help. Talk with your guidance counselor and explain what is going on and that you need their help with telling her. Please don't under estimate the love that your mother has for you, as it probably goes a lot deeper than even you know. I doubt very much that she will kill you, she may get up set but she will get over that.

You need to be tested by a doctor so that you will know for sure. If you are pregnant your baby will need prenatal care as soon as possible, to avoid risking your baby's life and the risk of it having serious health issues.

As for the ex, using meth and pot isn't a sign of a responsible person. If he were responsible you wouldn't be wondering if you were pregnant right now as he'd have used a condom or not have had sex with you at all.

Answer 4

There are lots of places that can help, and crisis centers (for moving out) I would try typing in a search for your general area. The other thing you can do is make an appointment at planned parenthood. They do tend to lean toward abortion, but if you don't want one, just get all the info you can from them becuase they have tons of pamplets and would know of the most local places to you. They are a great source of support and if you use "take charge" also a free service. If you consider adoption, there are agencies that can give you a place to live and put you in contact with adoptive families, open-ended adoptions are one way you can still keep some contact with the baby so you don't feel like you are totally giving it up and it knows you were doing what was best for it at the time (if you decide to do that) Good luck sweetie.

Answer 5

Your going to need to tell your mother. Mothers will threaten you with killing you if you get pregnant, but most of the time they don't mean it, they just say that to divert you from having sex. You need to tell her first.

How old are you anyways? Is there another family member you could move in with just in case? But, contact a planned parenthood in your area. They should be able to help you with this issue. Normally there are places that will help you.

Also, you should inform the father of the pregnancy. Because, even though he's turned into all those things that you have listeded he still has the right to know.

Now, calm down honey. You have a bumpy and stressful road ahead of you, and worring about all this stuff is natural, but if you stress to much about this stuff, you could have a miscarriage. You just need to relax. If your afriad of your mother, then tell another trusted adult first, like a friends parent or something then have them go with you when you tell her.

Hope I helped you out some.

Answer 6

There are a lot of programs that can help you...
Contact social services they have a teen and young parent program. Most communities also have programs such as planned parenthood. Look up pregnancy in the yellow pages, should give a list of resources in your area. You can also talk to social services about adoption.

Good Luck and dont worry, everything happens for a reason.

Answer 7

im so sorry. You have alot of things you need to think about an do. There is government housing. You need to go to the health department, to set up for all of this. You will have to have a positive pregnancy test to start for medicaid and other assistance. Have you told your mom yet? She could react totally different then what you expect. Do you want to keep this baby, if you dont you can always look into adoption. I wish you the best of luck and if you need someone to talk to email me [e-mail]

Answer 8

i grew to become into pregnant at 17, delivered my sweetie a month once I grew to become 18. i did not tell my mothers and dads, my mom guessed while the coverage organisation sent a EOB (clarification of reward) and then I fessed up. no person grew to become into satisfied approximately it, yet anybody made particular that i grew to become into nicely cared for. no person freaked out on me or acted like I might desire to do something i did not opt to (abort). the tip result grew to become right into a sparkling guy or woman that those human beings might additionally love. it is the final element that ever got here approximately and delivered me closer to my finished family individuals. Now i'm in my 30's, 3 childrens, abode, canines, and so on. My oldest and that i are so close and he or she somewhat has considered me strengthen up too. while the infants are the right age and that i don't artwork lots, I plan to attend some college and flow on a holiday and social gathering like a 21 365 days previous. I desire I had only blurted it out. I desire I had only randomly stated "mom, i'm pregnant".

Answer 9

Your Mom might be mad at first but it may be worth it. After a few moments of anger she'll probably calm down ad help you. Especially if she knows your views on the crack head sperm donor.As far as the guy goes don't ever think you can change him. Never works that way. Be responsible and raise a happy healthy boy/girl.

Answer 10

You can talk to a school counselor or other trusted teacher to help you. You do'nt have to get an abortion...if you do'nt want to raise the baby yourself, there is always adoption. If you choose to raise the baby, there are wonderful programs to help and your counselor will be able to direct you to those as well. I wish you the best of luck.