my friend was raped last month by this boy named william, now she has herpes and she acts as if she wants to die. how long does it take for most victims to come around again?
2007-02-05 03:57:32 · 4 answers · asked by shortcake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Raped last month?
She will ALWAYS have a rift in her heart that someday she'll be able to live life around after alot of time, but it will never go away or be like it was before.
She needs counseling and friends that won't get frustrated with her and the normal depression that occurs after this type of trauma.
Watch for suicidal behavior.
If you want to rush it, go somewhere else and let her heal with those who are more patient.
Maybe you could help her during the court process which is like being raped all over again in front of people who are judging you. That tends to go rather quickly and sounds like something you could have time for.
2007-02-05 04:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Avsky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, when hearts break they may never mend together again, and when they do mend into one, it comes back cricked. She may not know that, but her heart will never be the same again and that is what she feeling, what God is telling her. She doesn't want to die. She has a long life ahead of her!! Beautiful, with love, hope, peace and joy. This, this was the past, and go tell that William to go f u c k himself, not your friend! Your friend will mend, but slowly, and crokidely. She will come around when her heart is together and she is ready to live. Well now, you can worry about her, but she is doing ok, she may not act like it, but her life, is all she really has, this is her only one, let her know that, and that this is the only one she has. Tell her to enjoy it. People end up with way worse things. Lift her spirit! Good luck to that both of you, and really, tell that william guy to f u c k him self!
2007-02-05 12:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very horrifying experience. She will need some time since it happened last month only. The horrifying scenes are still fresh in her mind. Keep her company all the time. Dont remind her of this at all. Treat her like a baby and take her out as often as possible. Engage her in some activities so that she is busy and has no time to think of the past. Time is the best healer. Have patience.
2007-02-05 12:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by angela_hsiung 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it takes time to get over something like that she will go through many stages before she heals from this. If your her friend you will be by her side for as long as it takes her to get through this.
2007-02-05 12:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by tdashnay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋