2007-02-05 03:46:04 · 17 answers · asked by 2Much4U 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO WAY!!!!
2007-02-05 03:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I know sex is not everything. But if you are a highly sexual person, and love someone that is not very sexual, it does put strains on the relationship in many ways. Men and women,need to feel attractive, at least to the one they love. If your partner is not as sexual, then you most likely will at some time feel less attractive because of this, and could never be satisfied. This sometimes allows insecurities to set in.Sex is not everything, but the intimacy you get from each other during sex, is a big part of a relationship.
2007-02-07 10:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Broadgonebiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fulfilling needs in bed is something that two can achieve. If there is true love and appreciation from both parties, then they can create their own pleasures in bed. If both care enough for each other, then both will do whatever there is to satisfy each other. And if it doesn't happen 100% afterwards, then at least the happiness of having someone in bed that really did almost everything he/she could to satisfy you could definitely make it up for both of them.
2007-02-05 11:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mustang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something wonderful about people. People can learn and adapt. If given the right motivation, the poorest sexual performer can be molded into a Sex God.
My husband and I waited to have sex prior to marriage. He was a virgin and I was not. I knew in general we were compatible sexually. The desire to please each other was there, and so was the willingness to learn. Our first time was terrible, but over the course of a few months and patient practice my husband has become the BEST lover I have ever had.
Good lovers are made not born.
2007-02-05 13:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to many people that are married dont get satisfied in bed and step out on the marriage because of it. So if you love him and want to make it work then discuss it with him
2007-02-05 11:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex isn't everything. You can always show/teach the other person what you like in bed. Also there's books he/she can read up on. There's always help when it comes to sex, but sex isn't going to keep the marriage together. (But sleeping with someone other than the spouse can bring a marriage to an end).
2007-02-05 11:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by K9Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did!
She is a wonderful wife and mother and when we have sex it is wonderful BUT I desire sex more often than she does! SO I guess that is not fulfilling my needs?????
I love her to death and I would never cheat on her but I am just not satisfied with the frequency of our relations! Yes she knows it too, but she just does not have the sexual appetite that I do!
2007-02-05 11:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I wasn't married, I'd leave and find someone who did. As a married man... I haven't really had this problem a whole lot.
2007-02-05 11:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, unless I was like 80 and impotent. But there's always room for improvement if the person wants to learn to perform better.
2007-02-05 11:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wouldn't marry someone just for sex.u do need it to have kids but i personally wouldn't marry someone especially for sex.
i'll look for others things as well
2007-02-05 11:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by stranger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not on purpose.... my life is hell because this is the reality of what my spouse's attitude about sex. I want, and they don't give a damn.
2007-02-05 13:10:02 · answer #11 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋