Well...i know my boyfriend personally. and I found out about his other two myspaces....and one myspace is a "prep" site, the one that I'm on is his "goth" site, and the other one is a "gay" site, all with the similiar info and interests, except on the gay site it has stuff supporting gay pride, and "looking for a boyfriend" but he didn't update it...he just logs into it recently. and i'm really confused. Is he just faking for attention online. I mean he's dating me, he can't be gay right? Should I leave him just because of him hiding all this from me? Should I confront him? etc
2007-02-05 03:45:42 · 12 answers · asked by Lili 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
he might be bisexual. it is disturbing that he hasn't told you about his interest in men. but if you have only been dating a short time, perhaps he doesn't consider your relationship serious enough to be an exclusive thing.. i'd confront him about these pages and ask him what his true feelings and intentions are towards you. sounds like you may want more committment and exclusivity than he is willing to give.. might as well get to the bottom of this right away, so you can decide whether or not to continue with him
2007-02-05 04:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should leave him over it, since technically you weren't supposed to see those sites, anyway. I think you should bring it up, however. Not the website specifically, but just ask him if there's anything he needs to talk to you about, or ask him what he thinks about homosexuality. Your best bet isn't to run him off, because he'll think that being gay or bi is a bad thing, and it isn't. Just give him some space and I'm sure he'll be ready to talk about it someday. Unless it makes you so uncomfortable that you can't date him, in which case, yeah, I would get out of the relationship.
2007-02-05 03:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
cyber web relationship isn't an particularly stable concept. long distance relationships can artwork, yet in basic terms once you notice the guy sufficient. A courting strictly over myspace will by no potential artwork and may be no extra suitable than a fling. shop your head up nonetheless, they might o.k. teach to be that close chum out of your container you choose.
2016-10-01 11:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just faking for attention?? Come on you don't really believe that do you? Seems like to me a straight guy would not fake about being gay - it would be more likely that he would fake and indicate he races NASCAR or plays for hte Bulls or something like that - not fake about being gay.
I think your boy is a liar and you need to get him to open up pretty quick and find out what you are delaing with in him. You are going to wind up really hurt if you are not careful and if you don't not only open your eyes quick!
2007-02-05 04:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think it is wise to sleep on it. You should confront him. You need to know the truth. You can't be in relationship if there is no honesty in it. I mean it would do him good (and to you too) to talk about it. He can be Gay or curious about it but not out of the closet yet. don't wait for things to get deeper to find out.
2007-02-05 03:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jay C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need to know! ask him most straight dudes dont go to gay sites period, maybe hes bi curious but hell curiousity killed the damn cat! and no dont belive he just likes the attention cause i have a goth site and different site by no means do i head off to the gay sites lmfao confront him good luck to ya!
2007-02-05 05:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by lilangelbud2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront him, better the know exactly what your dealing with so you can decide if you want to be in the relationship or not.
2007-02-05 03:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by fireangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you don't know him as personally as you thought. Yes, he can be gay, bisexual, or just curious. Maybe he knows you're stalking him on myspace and wants to see your reaction.
2007-02-05 03:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WoW, you are so incredibly naive to date anyone who displays themselves on that perverted website. If you did not know these freaks before now, then let me be the first to school you in a lesson called secrets 101. Your boyfriend is just using you as a sponge to soak up his overflowing perverted, lustful and demented acts every day that he lies asleep. and all the time i think to myself, why can't girls like you gravitate toward young men like me .?
2007-02-05 03:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know that confront is quite the word, that sounds argumentative.
You could certainly ask him about it - and then decide (based o his answer) whether or not to finish with him.
2007-02-05 04:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋