Last night he was trying to get some but he could not get an erection, what's the problem or is he not sexually attracted to me anymore?
2007-02-05 03:42:37 · 4 answers · asked by badaries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps it involves the need to TRY to get some. At some point the effort is just not going to result in arousal.
Did it occur to you to take matters into your own hands, or better mouth?
There is one overriding truth here that men must know that women need to learn. The erotic zone which requires the most message is the one between the ears. Try that one too.
2007-02-05 04:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think frequency is of key import here.
Was this the first and only time? If so, I wouldn't worry so much. Chalk it up to stress or maybe he just had an aberrant "power failure".
If this is not the first time, but they only happen infrequently - have you noticed any commonality of these few episodes? Stress or pressure at work or home? With his family or yours?
If he has a few but the frequency is increasing, then maybe talk to him. No point in pretending it doesn't happen because you noticed - and I promise he did too. So talk to him. I would be very careful on tone here, don't want to sound denigrating or insulting in any way. Not getting an erection is, almost literally, a loss of identity for some men.
Perhaps ask him to go see his doctor.
2007-02-05 12:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have erectile disfunction... He may need to see a doctor for this and get help for it like Viagara or something... Go with him to a doctor before jumping to conclusions. I think he still loves you! I feel it is more of a medical problem.
2007-02-05 12:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong with him that happens to every man.every now and then.
2007-02-05 12:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by blueviper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋