okay. see my former best friend hates me and her new best friend and her are always talking about me and tryin to "show me up" by dressing up and looking prettier. they say im jealous and well i sorta am. of them individually and how she took my place. and i need help on how to NOT CARE that people like them more than they like me and that they hate my guts. it just hurts to be hated ya know? im not used to it. so , some advice.. please ?
2007-02-05 03:20:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but see my new bestfriend is both of those girls friends too. so its hard for me to hang around her without them being theyre. they are popular, so theyre everywhere i go.
2007-02-05 03:27:50 · update #1
i do, i try to dress up now like EVERY day. just so i dont feel any less than them. i just want them to love me ya know? but nomatter what, they ALWAYS look prettier than me.
2007-02-05 03:33:41 · update #2
oh yeah.
i wanna thank you all soooo much for actually putting your thoughts into this. its making me feel alot better and well, i apreciate more than you know. but listen to this :
ive even apologized to my former bestfriend and when i asked if she forgave me she said "idk" . its hurts me to have here hate me. badly.
2007-02-05 03:41:38 · update #3
Get used to it, all girls have an inner ***** and will hate other girls for stupid reasons and never change thier mind about it. Guys can hate each one day and be drinking buddies the next.
2007-02-05 03:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jaffar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all she was never ur b/f because best friends kind of last 4 ever. It's never 2 late 2 find ur real b/f. All u need 2 do is live ur life like they don't even exist. They hate u only because they r probably jealous of u, u must have something they don't so don't worry about them they ain't worth it. Once u ignore them it will feel like they r longer around. Keep ur head up and don't let them make u feel bad they ain't sh**t. Good Luck sweetie and 4 get about them.
2007-02-05 03:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest i think you should get over them! i think that they are being petty and not being friends with them is probably doing you a favor, you should find some other friends who dont want to put people down all the time and that actually want to have a good time, and see others having a good time as well. If you ignore them they will eventually get bored of annoying you and just grow up. If you show them that you can have a good time without them they will feel as stupid as they have been acting, and will maybe even apologies! who knows? good luck
2007-02-05 03:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by Emie-j-g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should find a new pal to show her up with. The best revenge is looking fabulous yourself! You should get too busy to care about it. In a few months (which seems like forever, I know) you will have moved on, so try to remember that now.
2007-02-05 03:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still likes you so don't worry about it. Do the same thing to her. Find you a person that you enjoy to be around and have some fun.
2007-02-05 03:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by K G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new friend, its tough being young. But school will be over soon, then you dont have to see them ever again.
2007-02-05 03:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are yourself don't let others taunt you in thinking that your not pretty when deep inside you are no matter what others think you , you are yourself . don't think that they are trying to 1 up you because they know that you are prettier than them so they try to match up to you . and they are jealous of you more than you are of them ..
2007-02-05 03:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by usafjettroop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make them jealous. or just ignore them and hang out with your other friends. if that doesn't work don't hang out around them then you won't get jealous. make it look like you don't need them. or you can wait til you guys are friends again. you could also dress better like wat they are doin.
also make them feel bored tryin to make you jealous because thats the only point of them makin you jealous. make them feel like sh!t when they talk to you when they try to make jealous.it might not work for you but i don't get jealous easily.good luck with wat your doin. i've done it before it works with me.
2007-02-05 03:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Han N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine you actually favor to locate nicer pals. those all and multiple isn't authentic pals, they appears like purchasers. You sound like a unswerving, giving human being. Please locate pals who will cope with you precise. overlook about those ones.
2016-11-02 09:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋