i was raped everyone says i should get an abortion but i do not want to. what should i do
2007-02-05 02:42:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
ultimatly that is your decision, i wish you all the best and i am sorry that had to happen to you at such a young age.
good luck and best wishes.
2007-02-05 02:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is not pregnant, you are. A baby is a lot of responsibility, if you believe that you can take care of your baby, then do what YOU think is right not everyone else. I I don't believe in abortion, so the only thing I will say is give the baby up for adoption if you can't take care of he or she. In your case it is a very hard decision, that only you can make. The decision will affect the rest of your life so don't let someone else make it for you. Good luck.
2007-02-05 10:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lolly07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are people in your local community that can help you with this. The best thing to do is talk to your parents and let them know what is going on with you, I'm sure they would want to help.
I also got pregnant @ 15 yrs. old. I did have an abortion, my parents decided that was best for me. I was able to finish high school and go to college. I'm not saying you can't do that with a baby, but it would be so much harder. I'm in my 30's now and I have an 11 yr old and a 9 week old baby. Being a parent is tough business, it's not all fun and games. Think very hard about your options, I'm sure you will choose what is best for you. Good luck.
2007-02-05 10:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Amy P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want an abortion then that is totally up to you, don't let any one else take your control away. If you want to keep the baby you can do that lots of women do after they are raped including my mother when she had my brother she kept him. If you want to put it up for adoption you can do that there are open adoptions also, just because that baby is partly from a horrible person doesn't mean it isn't half you.. Ultimately its your decision and you have to decide just how strong you are.
Good luck
2007-02-05 11:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by neicee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like you want an abortion so don't get one. Ultimately, life is about choices and YOU have to live with your choices. Regardless of what everyone says, do what you feel. Unfortunately, you were raped, however, the baby inside of you is still 50% of you. It is tragic, but it happens. God Bless You.
2007-02-05 11:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by downinmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the baby. No reason to kill it because of the circumstances of conception. In any given month a couple who is trying to get pregnant only has a 25% chance of conceiving. In order to get raped at the right time and have the egg fertilized and implant is SOOOOO rare. This little baby is a blessing. I think you are right for not wanting to kill it. God bless and Good luck
2007-02-05 10:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your heart, if you don't want an abortion than don't it has to be up to you. if you don't want the child you can always give it up for adoption, there are alot of couples out there that would give your child a happy home. but again that is your choice, no one can tell you what you should do. it has to be with in you. your decision good luck. and whatever decision you make you will be alright.
2007-02-05 10:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everybody, is going to try to tell you what to do but ultimately this is your decision as hard as it may be.
All options are open for you.
I hope if you do decide to keep the baby you have a great family around you. That you don't let your life stop you go to school, finish university and make it the best life for you and this baby.
Bless you sweetie,
I had my daughter at 17 and promised myself when I made the decision to keep her I wasn't going to stop any life goals for myself.
2007-02-05 11:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have the baby and put it up for adoption if you can't keep it. don't have an aborition it will ruin your life. its not the baby's fault that you were raped. so you are right to not want one. have the baby. good luck and stay strong.
2007-02-05 10:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have your baby, you should tell the father, so when the baby is born he can help you with the baby; he has to. And if your parents don't know you should tell them now so they can also help you.
2007-02-05 11:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Carmen S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you.....It sounds like you want to keep the baby, then you should. It is your decision, not anyone else's. Good luck to you.
2007-02-05 10:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋