2007-02-05 02:36:45 · 64 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It all depends on the guidelines you and your partner have set forth for what is cheating and what isn't. It is so funny how we as people expect other people to have the same exact values we do without ever discussing it.
Is going to a strip club cheating?
Is a lap dance cheating?
Is fantasizing about a TV or Movie star cheating?
Is talking on-line cheating?
Is a kiss on the cheek cheating? (could depend on the cheeks being kissed)
If you kiss someone else with your eyes open is that cheating?
Is masturbation cheating?
Is assisted masturbation cheating?
Is a prostitute cheating or just another form of masturbation?
Yes i am kidding with some of those but unless you and your other have outlined what is appropriate and what isn't this may have been a nothing thing. Since you put Kisses in quotes i am going to guess it was a full on open mouth tongue wagging kind of kiss - in that case it would seem that is inappropriate based on your understanding and expectations of your relationship.
You need to sit your partner down and find out, who they were kissing, why they were kissing them, what was the intent of the kiss, where did they want it to go, and most importantly how it makes you feel that they did this and that should you stay in this relationship and forgive them that you do not want that to happen again.
Good luck.
2007-02-06 03:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi Blondie i understand that throughout some places (Africa for instance) it truly is custom 'accepted' to kiss a chum as a greeting, yet it truly is unquestionably no longer accepted in England, & should be seen a type of dishonest because it truly is extra an expression of love than of s*x, this can be construed as closeness 'with emotions' & ought to element out that contained in the previous or contained in the destiny a s*xual intimacy is merely a short step away
2016-11-02 09:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definiately unless they are an actor/actress and they need to do it for work purposes. Think of it this way how would your partner feel if the roles were reversed - would they consider it cheating if you did it. Just remember it cant be one rule for one has to be equal, if your partner wouldnt mind if you did it and your fine with it as well then thats up to you.
2007-02-05 02:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I give my friends who are girls a kiss on the cheek or forehead all the time in front of my wife she knows i am a gentleman and that is how i great the friends i love (who are girls) i'm not afraid to hug guy friends i'm really close to after all i know i'm straight. I also give my babies a kiss to let them know i love them on the cheek or forehead.
But these lips will only touch the lips of my wife.
2007-02-05 02:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider that to be cheating but everyone defines it in their own personal way. Also, it matters whom they were kissing and in what way they kissed the other person.
2007-02-05 02:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Alyssa K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I kiss lots of people in greeting. I think it depends on the type of kiss. A "peck" for hello and goodby is not cheating. A deep sexual type of kiss is cheating.
2007-02-05 02:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by David M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A quick peck on the cheek or lips as a greeting or goodbye and I know the person they are kissing - no. Anything else - yes it's not good news!
2007-02-05 02:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the kind of kiss. If it is just a casual greeting type of a kiss, then no, I would not condiser this cheating
2007-02-05 02:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well not if it's a "social" kiss, like a greeting or they haven't seen them in long time, sympathy etc. However if it's a full on hot passionate kiss, then yes because that leads down the road to other things and where does it stop.
2007-02-05 02:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mickey 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your feelings.........
I mean that if your partner is really close to you then yes it is definitely considered as cheating
But if he aren't so close to him and take him lightly,do not have strong feelings for him then it may be no cheating on your part.
also depending upon how your partner kissed
Hope got the answer
bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-05 03:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by KELL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋