My ex has sole custody of our son and i have resonable rights of contact yet he doesnt anwser my phone calls and wont allow me to see him. he only has my son 4 out of 7 days and the rest he is with family what actions can be taken to get to see him. i showed up at his house on mothers day and he called the cops on me
2007-02-05 02:36:03 · 10 answers · asked by jammie v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You keep taking him to court. You have visitation and you have the right to see your child. Never allow anyone to tell you that you can't do something. You must be stronger than that. Inform the court that your ex is making it impossible to see your child and they will have a mediator step in to set up visitation. Allow your ex to continue to be a jerk, he is the only one that it's going to hurt. Be calm and keep your goal on your son. The sooner the court is able to see what a bad influence this man is on your son, the better off you and your son will be. Thank you and GOD bless.
2007-02-05 02:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok when you went to court, he was given sole custody of the child and the court issued you reasonable rights of contact. The court states that you can see your son and he's breaking the court orders. You need to go back to court and advised them of what's going on. Before you do that, you need to make sure that your life is in order so he has nothing to hold against you or use as his reasoning behind not allowing you to see you son. In your area I'm sure there's attorney's that handle this type of situation. See if someone will give you a free consult on what you should do, if not look into legal aide. Odds are already against you considering you're a female and the father was granted custody so the courts have already in some way labeled you as unfit. Correct your issues as far as your life and work on getting joint custody of your child. The only person that's hurting in all of this is your child. You need to get his father to see that he's hurting your son by keeping you away from him. Another thing you need to do it write letters to your son and mail them, make copies before you do so if your son doesn't get them when he gets old enough and asks you why certain things took place you'll be able to show him that you never stopped loving him.
2007-02-05 02:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why in the world did you ever agree to your ex having sole custody? There must be more to this story then told. I as a mother would never give up my custody rights and most mothers wouldn't. Why were they taken away from you?
2007-02-05 02:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is misinterpreting the right of first refusal. the infant is sufficiently previous to be on the marriage attended with assistance from grandparents and different kinfolk. merely say no. She might want to no longer attend the marriage and he or she has no criminal precise to be there. Have your lawyer deliver her a letter putting her immediately and then bypass ahead and performance a contented wedding ceremony devoid of the threat of a bitter ex spouse on the scene. Have her advised that that if she shows up, she will be became away with assistance from safe practices and an order of threat-free practices sought hostile to her. She's being ridiculous.
2016-11-02 09:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is yours 4 out of 7 days a week, what is the problem? leave the guy alone and wait until it is your day. if i understood you wrong, and you dont get to see him at all ever, it is probably becuase you are a meth addict or recovering meth addict or something of that nature. if that is the case, be happy you remember you have a kid and shut up. the kid is better off with out you.
2007-02-07 11:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by hmfic1235 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court and have them set up a schedule and then STICK TO IT. There is obviously some real problems here so mediation between the two of you might be in order.
2007-02-05 02:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should contact an attorney.
IF you haven't done something wrong towards the child, then you have rights to see them.
Go see a attorney.
2007-02-05 02:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did he get custody? you didn't visitation rights? If you hadn't gone to court already take him to court and get visitation rights. I don't know your situation so that's about all I can tell you as of now.
2007-02-05 02:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ameesha K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are entitled at all, then have a police office escort you. You have a right to see your son, as long as there is nothing saying otherwise.
2007-02-05 02:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by chad.cheney 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get yourself a lawyer.
2007-02-05 02:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋