i hate my ex ( to the point i sent him and email stating if he got shot in iraq it would be a crying shame and i hope see him on CNN being held hostage)and the ppl i work with what is wrong with me.
2007-02-05 01:54:34 · 27 answers · asked by mrs. smutty aka sodachix 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
don't think i need to talk to anyone about it. maybe i just need to punch him in the face
2007-02-05 01:57:37 · update #1
i am not having a baby anymore.
2007-02-05 02:00:58 · update #2
i know why i hate him just want to know if what i said was out of line.
He is not in iraq due to bush but due to the fact that he is money hungry and shots ppl for the highest bidder
2007-02-05 02:03:31 · update #3
I don't blame you....doesn't sound like you are a hateful person, you have it channeled where it belongs...I hated my ex for a long time, now I just don't care...but it hurts so deeply, it takes an incredible amount of time to get over...(at least for me)...Now, I hate my granddaughter's father like that...if he died tomorrow, I would celebrate, but I don't dwell on it!!!!
2007-02-05 01:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is your ex, meaning that the 2 or you are no longer together. You never said why you broke up, maybe we would have been a little more understanding of the situation. But regardless, having so much hate in your heart is only destroying you not him. You are the one that is going through the emotional suffering which only means that he still has a hold on you. Time does heal so whatever the problem is, in time i am sure it will be ok. But in the meantime just strike it up as being his lost, your learning lesson, and be happy that there are more fish in the sea.
I wish you the best.
2007-02-05 10:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Thumper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we say things we don't mean in the heat of the moment. I know you are very angry with him, but seriously that was really not necessary to say. He is in a war zone right now, and needs some support whether its from you or people that really care about his safety.
I think it would be best to be the bigger person and apologize for your nasty email and cut all ties with him. He must have hurt you to have all this anger and it won't get any better if you send him hate mail. Try to move on.
Good luck.
2007-02-05 10:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself the same question on a daily basis. The only difference between us is that the only people I hate are the haters, the only thing I am intolerant of is intolerance and the only thing I discriminate against are those who discriminate.
It's people's differences that make the world so special.
2007-02-05 09:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hate because you love. It sounds crazy but if you think about it, it makes sense. If you never knew about love could you hate? If you never knew about hate could you love? If your loved ones never tore at your heart to a point you can't take it anymore, could you hate? If no one ever was mean to you, and you of course love yourself (or at least used to) would you ever learn to hate? Hate and love are opposites and hate cannot exist without the other.
Think about the little drummer boy. Why did he hate humans? Because they killed his family. Why do you hate your ex? Do you really hate your ex. or are you just frustrated with love?
You are also human. We go through stages, because we love, where we hate the world because someone we love dearly broke our heart. What did your ex do? You need to try and let go. Although hate is quite natural, it doesn't make it right.
Sending you my love,
The Animal Psychiatrist
2007-02-05 10:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you have been hurt deeply. I would also say that you still have some feelings for your ex. In a relationship the opposite of love is not hate but apathy. . . . .not caring one way or another what happens to the person.
2007-02-05 09:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by icunurse85 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a bit out of line. And the thing is, you don't actually mean it. If you hate him so much, then just forget about him. Put it this way, he isn't worth so much hate because he is as you call it "an EX".......
2007-02-05 10:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need to move on with your life. He may have been a real schmuck in your relationship, but he may have already moved on. Don't punish yourself by holding yourself captive to him. You will find out that the only person you end up hurting is yourself. I hope you find happiness. Good luck to you.
2007-02-05 10:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by wespectmyauthoritah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex? If you hate him, then why do you keep a relationship going whith him? Try listening to music or going places that were before you got together to remind youself of you
2007-02-05 10:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still like him deep down even though u wont admit it, ur showin it through hate, just relax n forget about it *easier sed than done* but oh well ive sed it, just do it, why make it hard on ya self
2007-02-05 09:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by *sarah* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋