when i was at her that house she try killing herself but she did not want tell me why she try to do it should i ask her again. to see if she well tell me what it really is and see when she is lieing or not to me i done want that to happen i want her to tell me the truth what should i do about it ?
she makes me cry when she dose this
2007-02-05 01:49:13 · 19 answers · asked by alisha bessette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
awww sweetie, I know thats a real hard thing to deal with. I've been in the same situation. What everyone else has said, to try and get her some professional help, is definately true. Beyond that, there's a limit to what you CAN actually do for her. If I were you, I'd tell her what you wrote here - that you really want her to tell you the truth, and that you care and don't want to see her try again. Let her know you're there for her, no matter what. Thats really all you can do. I know this is hard, but you take care of yourself. If you wanna talk about it, you can message me if you like. Best wishes, and both you and your friend will be in my prayers.
2007-02-05 03:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by wonderer152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. I am also 13 myslef. I may not understand how you are feeling but I understand how it will affect your family. My big sister commuted suicide when she was 15. She said she did not want to die she just wanted everything to stop. If only she told us we could have done something and we would have too. It made it so my father himself went through depression and my parents got a divorce. Please just don't do it. I know you don't want to tell anybody about your cutting but telling people it better than killing yourself please don't end up like my sister it may seem like your dad does not care but trust me he does. This is just a small part of your life things will change for the better it may not be now or it may just be after school ends. But you will find away for it to. If you need it you can be homeschooling. And there is many websites that will help you through this just serch them on Google, Bing, yahoo etc. Please just get help asking for help is a lot less harder than killing your self. Just don't do it please...
2016-05-24 17:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents or another authority figure. With this situation, you have to on the edge. You would be skeptical in not beleiving her or scared to the highest. Talk to her about it. If she is doging and not answering logical, it means she has psychological problems or is doing it for attention. Talk to her urgently and if that does not help, go straight to a person of authority instantly. With these instances, people who try to kill themselves do it in secret instead of being with someone . So her intentions are not really serious.
2007-02-05 01:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by shady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people that are trying to kill themselves are looking for some kind of attention. If she has threatened, and hasn't actually gone thru with it yet, she's probably not serious about it, and very scared. The best thing you can do, as her friend, is get her some help. Tell her parents, a counselor, or someone else. Good luck.
2007-02-05 01:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by babidoozer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit her down and talk to her ask her why she wants to kill herself she has got to have a reason she could feel lonely even though there are plenty of people around. there is a reason and you need to find that reason out so that she can be helped. your last resort is to tell her parents if they dont know allready. dont go difectly to them they will freak and she will never be able to leave the house or see friends again.
2007-02-05 01:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by xjojox_wht_up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs help mentally ...you should tell someone soon so she can get the help she needs for this ...make sure you let someone know soon...she may be depressed and can't give a good reason for wanting to do this...you have to tell someone and talk with her be a good listener educate her on how important she is
2007-02-05 02:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is not an easy thing. I have been through this with one of my friends that i go to school with. All i did was tell about the Lord Jesus Christ and tried to help her out as much as possible. All you have to do is that and whatever happens after that you can not handle.
2007-02-05 05:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Shane W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs professional help. Maybe you can first tell her taht you are going to tell an adult if she doesn't (or can't) go see someone to talk to. Tell her that you'll go with her to a counselor at school or someone - but get her help - SOON. Good Luck and be strong for her sake and your own. She needs a good friend like you.
2007-02-05 01:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by LionessB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she tried then she would be in the hospital and under care of a nut bag type doctor.
if you are so scared for her then tell everyone, your parents and hers, the teachers at school and the counselor there too.
do not burden yourself with someone elses pain and problems they are not yours you are a child, so go be one.
2007-02-05 01:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last weekend my cousin killed himself because his gf broke up with him, he was 22.and along time ago my other cousin killed himself because he got expelled and didnt want to tell his parents, he was only 15....
"Nothing's worth killing yourself, so what was the horrible reason you wanted to?" just ask her that
2007-02-05 01:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by jordan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋