i lost my virginty on 1/26/07 and i didnt bleed when it happened and a week later i started bleeding i think it is my period but i am not sure, i want to take a pregnancy test but i can't get one, im 13 years old and my parents would flip if they found out.
2007-02-05 01:46:51 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Pregnancy test is very simple and you can do it your self...
Purchase "VELOCIT" ....The kit inside velocit has the details about pregnancy test and is a simple test on your urine...It can be self done and no need to tell your parents...
You should enjoy the sex at right age and 13 yrs is not the age to enjoy your sexual life...
Don't worry too much...What soever happened , it is history and take care in future...
If you have the desire, I suggest you to wait till you marry and then enjoy the sex...
2007-02-12 21:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Muzaffar R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a child and should not be having sex. Of course your parents would flip! And when you are a parent of a 13 year old girl, you'll flip too.
Not every girl bleeds when they lose their virginity. You will bleed if your hymen was broken then, however, it may have broken long before. If you are an active, athletic girl chances are it is already broken.
Sounds like you are only getting your period. If your hymen broke, it would only be a small amount of blood.
Get yourself on some birthcontrol if you plan on having sex again and be sure you ALWAYS use a condom.
Better yet, wait until you are old enough and in a stable ADULT relationship.
Be a kid.
2007-02-05 01:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by colinsmumplus1 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Oh it is the most hardest question that I ever answer.
Please let your trust adult knows and seek help if you can not communicate effectively with your parents. She or he can take you to check up with the Pan Parenthood. You can have a protection early and see the doctor for the shot to protect the uterus. You also can educate yourself with STD sexual trans mitt decease and etc. I am sorry to say that you are too young to engage in this activity. It is a risk for teen pregnancy and it will make your life short. You have the whole world to explore and I hope you seek a new way to enjoy life. Good luck and I am glad you are so honest and try to find the answer.
2007-02-12 15:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bleeding could've been your period, or it could mean you are pregnant. I don't see any other way around a pregnancy test. Have a close older friend get one for you if that is the issue. Also, you seem to be worried about pregnancy but you don't seem to be worried about STDs. You ought to worry about that one as well. Get some help from someone older than you. And for god's sake, if you have to have sex at this young age, use protection!
2007-02-11 22:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by World of Suffering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's saddening to me that you have made this decision. You have given away something that cannot be returned, the most prized thing you had, that you should have saved---your virtue. You must tell your parents. The longer you keep this in, the more psycholgical damage (and spiritual) you will cause yourself. This, of course, is assuming that you have good parents who love you and care for you. As far as a pregnancy test is concerned, I know of no age limit and you can walk into any Wal Mart to get one. You can usually find one for four or five dollars. Weather you are pregnant or not, I would still reccomend you speak to your parents. They will not be able to help you unless you reach for their help. If this thing happened to my daughter, I pray to God she would consult me. If she couldn't do this, I would feel I was a miserable failure as her father. The longer you wait the harder it will be.
2007-02-12 14:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents or another adult that you are sexually active. You can go to a planned parenthood clinic (or something like it) and get the necessary tests, education, and birth control. Sounds like you got your period (though, you can go thru an entire pregnancy getting periods). You SHOULD be concerned about the other aspects of sex....not just pregnancy, but STDS. Your main concern should be getting tested for those.
2007-02-05 01:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by yozombiesmama 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you bled a week later, that was, in all likelihood, your period. If you are really nervous you can either go to a planned parenthood centre, a health centre, or just buy a pregnancy test and take it in the bathroom of a resturaunt or a friend's house.
2007-02-05 04:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young what are you thinking taking that kind of risk I don't think your even in high school yet . you don't want to destroy your future by having a baby . you need to see if their is an older person you can talk too and please if your going to do that again use a condom although I think you should be closing your legs . I have a thirteen year old daughter and that would make me flip if she did that but I also know if she did she would come to me for help you should talk to your mom.
2007-02-05 02:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by gg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont start worrying yet if it was just the one time and it was such a short time ago more than likely the bleeding was your period, give it time..you should sit your parents down and have the talk, i am sure they would rather help yuo NOT get pregnant then to help you get pregnant..you should also ALWAYS, ALWAYS ALWAYS, use a condom not only for protection but also to save yourself from std's..you need to give your parents more credit i have a 17 yr old daughter and a 15 yr old son and believe me i would rather keep them safe then be sorry...
2007-02-05 07:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by bnd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. You are wayyyy too young to be having sex. The boys are using you and you need to stop this behaviour right now.
Girls who have sex at an early age tend to have more problems when the are young women. It's not worth it.
Tell your mother you had sex. Tell her you're worried and smarten up, girl! This day and age and all the disease and AIDS and single young teenaged mothers...what are you thinking. I know this is not what you want to hear, but you have to understand how horrible this is.
Don't have sex again. Go to your doctor. Anything you say to them is confidential. He will send you for bloodwork and a urine test to check for pregnancy. He will also do a pap test -- which all sexually active women have to do -- and recommend some sort of birth control.
All women who have sex have to have regular pap tests done to check for disease and abnormal cells and for any other types of problems..
ughh,..i don't even know what to tell you.
Do not have sex again.
Not till you have found your true life partner.
Real men..who you would one day like to marry and have kids with, they don't want girls that have had a lot of partners. They don't want used goods. They want a clean healthy partner for life. Not someone who was a little stupid and slept around as a teen.
Smarten up!
2007-02-05 01:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋