Iam confused about my husbands behaviour, he talks of wanting to see me having sex with another man even him doing it with another girl i have told him several times that i cant do that now he says he will do it himself then i watch them. Nowadays when we have sex he will be saying i should imaging him doing it with another girl or myself with another man it really makes me wonder and it irritats and bores me i have told him and he does not want to change when we start doing it he says i should imagine, it really takes me out of the mood of having sex and he just talks of one girl who is my cousin saying himself he imagines her i dont know if they once had sex together. I dont know what to do, to me its like he no longer enjoys having sex with me, i even asked him if he is enjoying he said yes but i doubt he cant be taking of other girls when he is with me on bed, or he does not respect me, iam just confused.
2007-02-05 01:43:31 · 6 answers · asked by Poki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He likes 3 some, you dont. He is tired of one woman. Well you dont have to accept his proposal. You either seek professional advice, threat to dump him if he continues with this idea of his.
On the other hand, if you are in lolve with your husband and want to save your marriage, think of the option of having a man of YOUR choice having sex with you infront of him. Test him on this. If he accepts, then what do you lose!?
2007-02-05 02:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This does not mean the relationship is over or he don't love you. He may just be more sexual than you,nothing wrong with that. He may just be getting bored, feeling stressed about work,age,what ever. Sounds like he wants to explore. I am not sure how sexual you are but maybe you could up the excitement and be all he needs? Watching a porn together maybe an option. Sounds like he may be dealing with some insecurities in his attractivness to women. We have to let our guys know how hot they are,or they want to look else where. Mens egos are a touchy thing.Don't tell him you are attracted to him, men are visual, show him!
2007-02-07 03:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Broadgonebiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to what I'm about to tell you. Your man does not love you anymore. Any man who can ask his wife to share her body with another man does not love her anymore. Same thing applies to the woman if she requests her man to be with another woman. Your husband is asking your permission to cheat. You can either grant him permission or dump his sorry, sex craving, a s s. Have more respect for yourself and get away from him. Thank you and GOD bless.
2007-02-05 02:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys need to seek some counseling.
2007-02-05 01:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow what a jerk,sweetie forget it he is having sex with other women even though he is having sex with you its obvious he is thinking of them, tell him he needs to stop or you will stop having sex with him.
2007-02-05 01:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by sweet pea 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if this were my relationship, it would definatley be over.....sorry.
2007-02-05 02:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋