i lived in a shared house last year with a guy and we became really close in 3 months. we hung out all the time, but nothing sexual ever happened.he then got a girlfriend and moved back to his home(sweden)he now lives with her(together for a year).he only gave 2 weeks notice he was leaving,and i was destroyd.i hardly spoke to him for 10months,then he visited england at xmas.it was like we'd never been apart.we ended up having sex,but it was guilty,restricted and leftme feeling empty.i went to visit him last week in sweden, stayed with him and his girlfriend.nothing happened until we went on a trip alone together.then we spent everynight together.we discussed how we feel,he told me he's in love with me but didn't realise til he'd left england and now he has a completely different life,with responsibilities.i feel physical pain at notbeing with him,but he cheats on his girlfriend, and has even slept with prostitutes!i know i need to get over him but how?he's like my best friend.
2007-02-05 01:38:04 · 2 answers · asked by finarina_queen_of_dreamers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen Sweetie, he’s actually shown you that you need to leave him alone. He’s now cheated on his girlfriend with you. He’s proven to you that he’s not to be trusted in a relationship. If you date him be prepared to be home alone many nights. My question is if you know he’s paid for sex why in the world did you have sex with him. You may love him and that’s fine but love yourself more. Your friend’s actions show that he not only doesn’t love himself but he doesn’t love anyone else. Do yourself a favor and befriend him from a far. You’ll be much better off.
2007-02-05 02:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listin boo if he cheats on his girlfriend 9 times out 10 when ya'll get together he'll do the same to you.Leave him alone.
2007-02-05 01:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by shane h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋