my wife thinks she bi shes tried it but says she,s just experimenting i dont mind should she carry on ?

Answer 1

infidelity is infidelity

Answer 2

I think it depends on both of your personal feelings about it. If you're comfortable with an open relationship (ae: you are both welcome to have sex outside the marriage), then I'd say it's ok. But watch out for potential relationship problems resulting- jealousy, etc. Also, make sure you're both safe (get tested for STDs, etc.)

I wouldn't be up for it, but I'll be the last to judge if that's what you're both into.

Bisexual doesn't mean she has to be with more than one person at a time, though, by the way. Bisexual people can definitely be monogamous.

Really only the two of you can make that call. Talk it out and try to be as open and honest as possible with each other. Best of luck to you both!

Answer 3

Well honey, I was bisexual for 25 years and then I met my girlfriend! I was married to a lovely man with two children, a great career and I left it all for the real love of a woman. I'd been 'experimenting' for a few years with my husband's permission and then 'snap' something very real and special happened!
I am still friends with my ex husband now, we've been divorced 7 years..... but everytime i look at him I wish I'd been honest enough with both of us to walk away because either way I was cheating on him.

Answer 4

At the end of the day if you're happy for her to do it then,what's the problem? All i will say is be careful that she doesn't get too attached to any of her little conquests because then i'm quite sure you'll have a problem with it,as there'd be a good chance that you could lose her. Hope this helps :-)

Answer 5

She wants to experiment? That means that she's bored and not happy with you probably.... You two are committed and i dont think she should try having sex to other even of the same sex.... are you not insulted with that? Maybe you should also be more experimental to her... feel her body more and be a little more playful. That's what lesbians do.

Answer 6

That very much depends on the strength of your relationship together.

If you're happy for her to express herself sexually as she sees fit and there is no jealousy borne from it; if you can see past the societal dogma that she is cheating on you; then let her continue.

I'm more concerned that you mind more than youre letting on, otherwise why ask this question?

Answer 7

Be very careful in this situation-either way she is cheating on you (just because she's going with women dosn't make it any less cheating!She's still getting her rocks off!).A lesbian wouldn't accept their girlfriend 'experimenting' with a guy so why should you? I'd tell her to stop,or she needs to be single.She shouldn't be doing this while in a relationship.

Answer 8

Tell her if she sleeps with a woman you're going to sleep with a man.

Do it with a serous face and look for her reaction. If she looks horrified you know you have a HUGE problem.

Answer 9

Well yea to help her find herself i guess, s she know she has tryed things and didn't feel like she was being held back. but if you have a problem with it or feel uneasy about it suggest you made watch once or even help.

Answer 10

Well you say you don't mind. So why are you asking us. The obvious answer is , sure why not. You dont care...

Answer 11

That's up to the two of you. Of course don't be surprised when she comes home and tells you she's leaving you for her GF Rocky.

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