i m in troble its a psychological problem plz help me?

Question

i m an accountant having 7000per month i just have to do work for one day in a month so the whole 29days of month r so boring 4 me i am planning to earn one crore and also i know i can make it
but every time when i start to work towards my bussiness some kind of laziness overcome on me and the time if i m feeling good then by just dreaming i waste my all day i can not concentrate my self on my work some times i feel i should have a girlfriend what another time my mind changes to spritual waves
the whole time i am enthusiasmless
plz if u can help me i will so much thankful to

Answer 1

Since you've posted this question so many times, let me just ask... IF you are so well off, then why do you need to ask about free services and get rich quick schemes? I do think you have a psychological problem, but it has nothing to do with a dream job, though it does certainly have to do with too much time on your hands. If you're bored, get up and do something. Life isn't going to fall in your lap.

Good luck though.

Answer 2

Why don't you take up a voluntary position? Particularly as you are a qualified accountant, you could have a lot to offer a charity that can't afford to pay for one.

Girlfriends and spirituality can be fit around a full time job, so they're hardly an answer to your problem. You need to find something to keep you busy that provides you with a sense of being valuable. You're in a better position than most to do that by offering your services for free.

Answer 3

If I thought any of that was true I'd advise you to seek help in the Mental Health Section not in Philosophy!
As it is I think you may need Psychiatric help anyway. At least they should be able to point you in the direction of a good Doctor
Sorry but not even top Accountants can work one day a month and earn enough to live on!

Answer 4

even though u have an excellent job with excellent money you still have a bad self image of yourself and low self esteem.
proves money isnt everything. seems like you are lacking something. intimacy, sprituality....something less tangible. this is good that you feel this way, it makes you strive for more. so u dont have a psychological problem..you are just coming to the realization that you are human and your value is not just about money.
since you have low self esteem, find different ways to perceive yourself. right now you are acting lazy because you dont value yourself that much, therefore dont value your time.
KNOW that your time is valuable. you are "rich" but you are spiritual also.YOU deserve the best..go for it..just do it.
Lots of people, like me are self destructive cause they have low self esteem. they could have a great thing right in front of them, but sabotage it because they think they dont deserve it. Sometimes i feel the same.

BUT you DO, deserve it:) everything..money, spirituality and in time a great wife!

edit: I agree with what the other posters said..go find a hobby. you need a passion.

Answer 5

You're obviously underworked and overpaid. Many of us have to work everyday just to keep our heads above water. Set yourself a goal, maybe the wife you obviously want, and promise yourself that you won't marry until you've got that crore. (No cheating in brothels). This might help to concentrate your mind during those boring 28/29/30 days of unemployment.

Answer 6

IF YOU ARE SITTING ON A JOB EARNING 7000 FOR WORK OF ONLY ONE DAY, FIRST CHANGE THE JOB BY A JOB WHICH KEEPS YOU OCCUPIED FOR AT LEAST 36 HRS A WEEK. YOUR 1 CRORE AMBITION CAN NOT FULFILLED WITH THE ATTITUDE YOU HAVE AT PRESENT. YOUR SPIRITUAL (??) WAVES ARE NOTHING BUT YOUR IMAGINATION. WAKE UP AND WORK FOR YOUR 1 CRORE. DO NOT DEPEND UPON IDEAS FROM GIRL FRIEND ETC.

Answer 7

I don't see anything wrong with your grammar. You're using poetic style kind of. You have a good job then. I agree with you, i think you need someone to occupy your time, your love and your ambitions. And that one person is ME!! you just have to deal with other strings attached- not directly but by concept. But don't worry, you just have to deal with me, like i don't want you dealing with my strings lol. So you want to get on with it? lol.
Seriously, i think you should have a girlfriend to share your love and your success with. Not that because you're making more than adequate income, but it is because the fact that you're living a lonely life.. Good luck. Everyone needs someone to give meaning to their lives.

Answer 8

You suffer the same as all of us not one human can proclaim freedom from this vice, yet what makes others succeed where you feel you fail is belief in yourself and your abilities. To much do you measure yourself by the yardstick of a incompetent society, stand tall and be judged for your belief in yourself do not fear this for all suffer the same as you.

Answer 9

Hi Raj, i understand that you are an accountant freelance accepting accounting job per project bases and recieve 7000 a month depending on the finish job, if you bored theres a lot of things to be work accept teaching in accountant in your counrtry.and study in english and reading.

Answer 10

Woman Fascination—The Disease of the Modern Age.

Sex is the overwhelming obsession of modern society. Sexual promiscuity is so unrelentingly stressed that anyone who does not appear to the highly interested in it is generally considered to be a crank. Social pressure induces people to try to maintain juvenile lustiness long after the sensual high of youth has subsided. Thus millions of people remain emotionally immature all their lives. It is a sick world.

Actual civilization teaches its members to sublimate their sexual desires for higher, spiritual purposes. Modern civilization exploits people’s sexual cravings, makes a business out of it, and sends people to hell by the millions.

Seeing all this, the Vaisnavas are sorry. If only people could understand this simple fact: We are all eternal servants of Krsna. Our sexual desire is simply a perverted reflection of our heart’s deepest longings to love Krsna.

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