i have a crush on this guy, and he knows i have this crush on him but we actually don't know each other personally(we're schoolmates) when we see each other at school his friends act foolish and tease the both of us but we never actually have a chance to really talk, now i've been having a lot of dreams about him!!It was as if we'v known each other for so long!!but when i wake up, nothing's changed, he's still that guy i can only talk to in my dreams....
2007-02-05 00:01:44 · 12 answers · asked by lostinhislostlove 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I keep dreaming of him, why?
i have a crush on this guy, and he knows i have this crush on him but we actually don't know each other personally(we're schoolmates) when we see each other at school his friends act foolish and tease the both of us but we never actually have a chance to really talk, now i've been having a lot of dreams about him!!It was as if we'v known each other for so long!!but when i wake up, nothing's changed, he's still that guy i can only talk to in my dreams....
we're both in college
2007-02-05 00:11:34 · update #1
I think you really want him...
The mind tends to go forward where the attention is focused...
hence the dreams...
I wanted this gorgeous girl... so much... we made out and had a long conversation in my dream... after that I didn't wish to have that girl and do it with her...
you will lose that liking if you mind reaches it's end in mind... knowing him...
you need to focus on knowing and conversing with the guy... just showing that you are a normal girl, a normal person... If you wish for a long term relationship... i don't know if the guy is... If you want to have a boyfriend... you can have that... know the guy first... then see if you still like him or not...
Also, focus on your studies... you tend to daydream if you just think of him... got my drift?
Good luck!!! ;-)
2007-02-05 00:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, I know how you feel. I had one of those dreams just a few nights ago. Does he have a crush on you? If so, go for it! Turn Schoolmates into Soulmates! If not, get him to crush on you. Like the same bands he likes, talk about things that he'll understand
2007-02-05 08:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a crush on someone, And often its just better that way, You would feel very let down if he was not the Person of your Dreams, which he probably isn't.
Stick to the Dream and concentrate on your Education
The right one is now a Stranger you will meet in your Future
2007-02-05 08:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by uksawatdii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both interested, there will be an opportunity to talk.
In a way, I wish for you that that not happen. Because you have fantasized so much about this person you've never had a conversation with, that the reality will never live up to the fantasy. If I were you, I'd just keep my fantasies. They're always way better.
2007-02-05 08:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dream is just that...your dream, or perfect situation. Your mind is acting out in it's sleep state what you cannot bring yourself to do during waking hours. The problem is, dreaming will not change the reality here. Talk to this guy...just something small...and watch it build.
2007-02-05 09:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r school student rite?? these kind of thoughts r general at this age don't worry abt it... but know one thing it can be just an infatuation..
or even if it is real think after some time i mean after the age of 20 or so ....
2007-02-05 08:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him then go for it, but whatever you do...be yourself. Don't pretend to like things just because he does. It may work at first but eventually you will be unhappy, and whats the point of love and romance if there is no happiness.
2007-02-05 08:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by alisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your subconscious works on problems that are troubling you while you sleep...hence, the subject of your wake-time thoughts can creep into your dreams!Ã
2007-02-05 08:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well him being in you'r dreams means that you two are meant to be so just ask him out!!!!!!!or casually invite him to a party or the movies with a lot of you'r friends
2007-02-05 08:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good, when you talk in person, 2 weeks tops and you'll think he's a moron. Dream on.
2007-02-05 08:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋