if you love somebody, but she is engaged with other and also she is your close friend. you also want she is always with you. is it possible? if not then why?
2007-02-04 23:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sourav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NOW THE TIME HAS COME TO SAY GOOD BYE TO HER.
2007-02-05 00:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man..wake up! she's getting married...! and by pursuing her you'll not only destroy the friendship with your close friend but also your own credibility and dignity...you might as well have her, but it would forever bother your conscience...it might hurt but it's the right thing to do...
My advice? Deal with it. Time heals all the wounds and so should you. You can't rush into moving on, you have to pass through several stages until you could say 'i survived!'. By now im sure you have the mottos 'love sucks', 'love is stupidity' etc....
1.) throw away all her mementos, photos, and eveything that reminds you of her.
2.) Spend more time with your friends and family.
3.) Keep yourself busy.
4.)Avoid listening to mellow music, esp. the songs both of you loved to listen to,
5.) Keep a list of all the bad things she did to you and tack them next to your bed.
6.) Sever all of your communications with her.
7.) Avoid seeing her.
8.)Avoid the places she frequents.
9.)Convince yourself that you don't deserve her.
Remember this:
GOD TAKES AWAY WHEN HE HAS SOMETHING BETTER TO GIVE
2007-02-05 09:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is like--Having the cake & eating it too.
U want her happiness & simultaneously her destruction too.
U could have expressed ur feelings if u were sure about her feelings for u.
But I feel that if she had loved u she would not have got engaged to somebody else.
But ,now if u want her to be happy,just be friends & leave it at that.
2007-02-08 09:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by rajeswari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO live a happy life the certain things are needed like,money,goo
d health,good and useful education,good friends and good surroundings and good heart which should have good thoughts
good manners,disciple,good behaviour,and we should earn mon
ey in a good way,and we should not think to harm others,we hav
e to help others.
2007-02-05 10:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i think to b happy u need just is a friend
mind it i said friend not g/b f
u have the same problem as my friend had few yeard ago what she thought my frind is happy then i m also happy
acc to her and me offcors love is friendship if u want to b with her then b her best friend that no one can break ur friendship
make her so close to u that b4 thinking abt his bf she think abt u
same my friend did and she is sucess and she is now my best friend b4 any one i think of her first
abb the best
2007-02-05 08:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Rahul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not possible, life is like that. It is better to forget and wait, U will get a better girl, more suited for u, with whom u will be very happy.
2007-02-05 07:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In more over the same situation, good to know am not alone.
2007-02-05 07:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by bindu_b11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah it is possible,
just get a inspiration from movie "murder"
i am sure you can do better than imran hashmi
regards
2007-02-09 06:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by rajesh y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else...that's why god made more than one girl.
2007-02-05 08:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcoz its not only my want it her life also
2007-02-05 08:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by prem the luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋