i also have good feelings for him and he wants to marry me as a second wife plz help.
2007-02-04 23:48:05 · 10 answers · asked by salamatz2003@yahoo.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are in a society where polygamy is allowed, then go ahead and marry him, but do not sleep with him first. He might be trying to just sleep with you and then damp you.
If you are in a society where polygamy is not allowed, then avoid him. He will cheat on you the same way he cheating his current wife now.
All the best!
2007-02-05 00:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marrying sombeone's husband is not the best. Go for your ownm cos there are a lot singles males all over the earth. No matter how the man may loves but the first wive will not allow you to enjoy the marriage. And you will not have authority over the man, the wife or their possessions. So, to be forewarn is to be forearm. Make hast while the sunshine.
Vic4real.
2007-02-05 00:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How on earth could u possibly want a man that is proving that he can not be faithful to his wife?? what makes u think that ur more special then her? U dont think at one time he thought the world of her, when it was new.. now he's become bored with her, and wanting to move on.. the same will happen to u if u get with him.. he has already shown a lack for morals and values and has no problems breaking his vows.. im sorry theres no way in hell id marry a man that could cheat on his wife so easily and destroy his family.. im smart enough to know better.. and if u had any respect for yourself, and for ur family values, u'd tell him to kiss off, and find a man that will actually be true to u ..
2007-02-04 23:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice would be to buy a pair of runners and run yourself out of the husbands life, or if you cant run get on your bike. But what about the his wife ,you trash her as a 'somebody', when in fact she is a living human being with feelings and a heart, which could be broken because of you. Next, I wonder about you, but I think the stories revealed the answer already , you are in fact the TRASH unless you can prove otherwise
2007-02-05 00:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by deedubya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First at all, for what reason he will marry to a seccond wife?
Do you know there life problems, like housband and wife?
Why he will marry with you iff he is allready married?
Try to speak open about your reasons, and understand him reasons too before to decide.
2007-02-04 23:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nicolaie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r arabian..and muslim..right..marry him if u want that BUT u must ensure that his first wife know that and accepted it..if not..forget that man..
2007-02-04 23:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by 7atem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His wife needs to beat the **** out of both of you! That's what I would do.
2007-02-05 00:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your question my friend said if he could purchase a BOFORS and fire you...wats your opinion lady?
2007-02-04 23:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it
2007-02-04 23:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say NO!
2007-02-05 00:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋