is it wrong to have a boyfriend at 15? am i too young?

Question

people say i cant handle a relationship now with school work. i say different ... help!!

Answer 1

i had my first boyfriend when i was 16 and everybody thought i was too young and i thought otherwise but after terrible heartaches, i know now they were right because relationships takes a lot of work and both persons should know the things they want in life. if you think you can handle it and you are willing to take the consequences then no one will pull you back but just take care of yourself because i thought i could handle it and i took care of myself but having the concept that you're in love when your young could make you do things that you will later regret. i believe that everybody deserves a good and satisfying love relationship and it can wait. what's the hurry? but as ive said it's your call.

Answer 2

actually it's not wrong to have a boyfriend at 15..at seems like as the years pass by the age of having the first boyfriends is getting younger and younger..i had my first boyfriend when i was 13 years old..haha..way too young..but after four years, we broke off...ouch..

it's not wrong, but at such an age, you aren't still mature enough to handle a commitment..at the first place, you may even think you're already feeling true love when in fact you're just infatuated. You see, there are times when you almost cannot distinguish infatuation from love. Another thing, as science says, boys mature later than girls..and at such an age (let's assume he's in the same bracket as yours), he can't handle a commitment efficiently and you won't feel like you are his girlfriend at some point. It's not yet true love, yet teenagers sometimes give their all thinking it's already 'the one', and when things get wrong and they break up? It hurts a lot..and will take a lot of time to move on.

my advice, if you really want to go out with him..then you have my thumbs up. But..don't give your all or don't give too much of yourself yet..then, after 5 years or so and your still together, then probably it's already love...

ei...don't forget to do school work. Remember, love should be constructive, not destructive.

Answer 3

I don't think it's wrong for you to have a boyfriend at 15, as long as it doesn't distract you from your studies. I'm sure you've heard the lecture about the importance of studying a thousand times already, so I won't repeat it; and it's also important to learn dating etiquette and what you want out of relationships with others. So havng a boyfriend could be a very positive experience for you!

Answer 4

no i dont think its wrong to have a boy friend at 15 but urschool work is there too and as long as u dont get obsessed with the fact that u have a boy friend then i guesss ur life will be a cool breeze

Answer 5

Yes, its ethically wrong and practically in-appropriate! You need to concentrate on your studies. you can have friends and good friend, or best friend, to share ideas, secrets, advice, etc., etc. But certainly, the last thing you need is a boyfriend-girlfiriend relationship. You will get pressurised, but be strong!

All the best!

Answer 6

15 is still a little young for a b/f but as long as your not sexually active I think it's ok.
If your ever gonna be active plz use protection.
My 15 yr old neice is now a mother because she was foolish.

Answer 7

dont rush in..
ur young and dont bother with the thing called "men" .. perhaps, ur mates are making lies about havong lost their virginity, but dnt bother wiv em or men.
take it easy.. search after ur 17, then ul start to maturen up also.

please dont look 4 a boy jus cozza V day! lol.. tkcr

Answer 8

i'm sure you can handle a normal 15 yr old relationship..

i mean its not like your getting married.. having a pile of babies or anything yet..

so just take it slowly enjoy hanging out with you boy.. :)

Answer 9

yes u r 2 young pliz hold ur horses. ok