i dont like to kiss or hav sex with another gay man,but i really enjoy when i lookin at sexy men and love them..i also enjoy having sex with females ...confusing!am i gay?plus im 20 y old
2007-02-04 23:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nobody is a gay.Don't you remember ''Our Heavenly Father?''And lead us not into temptation ..'' the temptation of looking to men , kissing them or having sex with them , comes from satan , the fallen angel , who envys the humans ..Satan wanted a glory like the glory deserved only by God , and now he tries to distroy our happiness...You are a man ...don't look at them ,this perspective of attraction is for women..you must be attracted only by women, try to look only to women , and try to look forever only politely to men , the way you look at God which is also a kind of man -looks like a man..If you feel attraction for man remember that only a woman can feel a man like a woman feels a man ...and love a man the way he must be loved .You must feel a woman and fall in love with a woman but you must find a pretty innocent woman...to be a real woman ..not an artificial one..The real men are those who look only to women , and love and kiss and sleep only to women..So give up this tendencies , better said temptations...
2007-02-05 00:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
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2016-11-25 03:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm quite in the opposite side. I'm gay but I do find girls very beautiful. I would like looking at a pretty girl but not more. This doesn't make me a straight. It's human. I found them beautiful.
But it's also possible that because you think kissing a guy is wrong, you don't want to kiss one. Subconsciously, you're rejecting your homosexuality.
But I would advise you to not too worry about it. Take it how it comes! If you fall in love with a guy, be gay and spend your life with him. If it's a girl, be straight and lead your life with her.
Please don't restrict yourself with labels.
2007-02-05 01:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ieshwar 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just because you admire the way a guy looks, doesn't make you gay. You are just looking at a sexy body, think of it as a piece of art. You admire it, but have no desire to touch it. Nothing wrong with that.
2007-02-04 23:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
People are so qucik to say 'bi' but i dont think thats the case.
it could be that the reason you dont like to have sex or kiss a guy is because you think it is wrong.
You need to figure it out for yourself, give your own label.
2007-02-04 23:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by quest 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you're bi. In time you may start wanting to have sex with guys
2007-02-05 02:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was it like with your dad ? Was he in your life at all?
You could be seeking fatherly love.
We have a Father who cares about you and me deeply.
His love has changed my life , he wants you to know His love .
He is real, and knowable . He created you , and passionately cares about
you , and wants to have a relationship with you. He communcates with us
from within ourselves, He speaks softly heart to heart, soul to soul . His
Spirit desires to connect with our
emotions.
2007-02-05 03:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're gay only if you define yourself by whom you have sex with.
Once you let others define you, you allow them to exploit you.
Life is a buffet, enjoy.
2007-02-04 23:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by radical4capitalism 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
you are not gay. you are 100% bisexual.
2007-02-05 00:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by conde_c_b 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are at least bi
2007-02-04 23:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋