I'm married & have experienced a bizarre situation with a former long-distant married male classmate. As a reunion contact, my job is to network/sharing my addy for info. & r.s.v.p.'s.
Immediately, this male began to e-mail comments such as: I've thought of you over the yrs., more than I care to admit>>have you ever thought what it would have been like if we had dated/married>>and I never would have treated you like your abusive ex & I made it a point to personally let him know, if he ever lays a hand on you again, I'll kick the crap out of 'im. My 1st thought: he's hitting on me (gf's agree). So, I confronted him with the question: Why? His answer: I've misunderstood & over-reacting. Since then, he's stopped writing, but has asked me to continue. I don't write, only share attachments. Recently, I was blocked. What is going on with this man? Gf's & I are curious & would appreciate, male perspective. Thanx
2007-02-04 23:30:18 · 3 answers · asked by LeeMonade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was "coming on to you", flirting, whatever you want to call it. Once you confronted him, it embarassed him, so he stopped writing you, then blocked you. He sounds a bit weird to me, and you need to forget him. Don't "go there"!
2007-02-04 23:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you didn't overreact? Perhaps he was just thinking about the past. Reunions tend to do that. . .And he told you that. . What else do you want to know?
2007-02-05 08:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quess my answer would be in the form of a question and that is why do you care, you're married.
2007-02-05 08:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋