its not me having it. Its my husband with his ex fianacee. She has been sending him messages and emails saying how much she loves him still and wants him back. She left him very cruely and married the man she left him for. Now 4 years later she is not happy with him and looking again at my husband.
2007-02-04 23:03:53 · 16 answers · asked by honey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Her email address should be blocked. Sounds to me like she's a bit of a stalker. Is your husband reacting and responding to her messages and emails?
Affairs are what they are affairs---you can't have physical without the emotional.
You need to communicate your feelings to your husband and let him know how much you don't like the fact he's communicating with his X fiancee.
2007-02-04 23:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, okay, well there's no such thing as an emotional affair, but this woman sounds a bit off balanced. If your husband is reciprocating, well that's not strictly emotional if you know what I'm saying. Anyways, I'm guessing you watch too much Oprah or Dr. Phil, you need to stop that. Secondly, talk to your husband about this woman and her crazy messages and come up with a plan on what to do about it ie. blocking her number and email address after telling her it's over and if you're vengeful contacting her husband hahaha.
2007-02-05 07:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go mental. Some people have the cheek of the devil for sure and she sounds just one of them. Did your husband inform you of the messages etc., or did you come about if yourself. If you were told he is being honest but i feel he should not reply or have any contact with her. I feel emotional is by far the worse of the two and would have to get involved in telling her to back off! Even the experts say emotional is just as bad as physical both are wrong and no tolerance zone required in this field.
2007-02-05 12:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by deep in thought 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a problem here until your husband reacts improperly toward this @&%^#. I mean I am flirted at all the time. I guess I'm just one hot tamale...lol. Anyway, I tell my wife everything, because I would never want to destroy the relasionship that we have. If I was flirted with and kept it from her and actually fanned this fire then there would be a problem with your husband. Your only problem is with this tramp. If I were you I would ask your husband if you could answre his e-mails from her for awhile. Then get creative! Have fun. Involve your husband and enjoy trashing this biatch!
2007-02-05 07:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe an emotional affair is worse than a physical one, with an emotional affair they get to know that person very well, feel safe and comfortable with them, and will begin a full blown affair. a physical affair is just physical and involves just the physical stuff, and when the man gets tired of that he will usually come home, but emotionally if involved it is alot harder to leave someone u think u know well, and u have things in common with, especially if u have been discussing your mate and the problems, it may be embarrassing to the cheater to than leave the mistress and return home, because the mistress knows all the stuff, and sometimes it's just easier for the cheater to go with the mistress.
2007-02-05 07:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES - emotional is worse than physical. They have
your partners mind and thoughts.
Tell this woman she has got NO chance. She blew it
years ago. MAKE your husband change his e-mail
address and let them both know you are on their case.
You have got to be the strong one here. Because as
long as she is making contact with your husband it is
just stirring up old feelings and he will start to think
more about her. He is on dangerous ground here. If
you both have a happy marriage do not let a has been
just turn up to spoil everything for you. Good Luck.
2007-02-09 06:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is your husband behaving with all this attention? If he has any good sense, he should kick her to the curb. Remember he has married you so don't get too jealous. If he is entirely too flattered with all the attention, I think I would have to come up with some type of plan.. Abuse ain't fun and I wouldn't stand for it. Wish I was there so I could help you come up with something. Whatever, be clever.
2007-02-05 07:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by towanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just as bad as a physical one. It sounds like here your husband's ex wants him back. It is imperative that you talk with your husband. He needs to avoid contact with her or the emotional affair will turn sexual.
2007-02-05 07:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you reading the texts secretly? Has your husband been open about them with you? It does sound a bit like harrassment? Your response depends on how your husband is being....I wouldnt stand for it and neither should your husband- if he is not intereste he should tell his ex to leave him alone- for your sake and for his!
2007-02-05 08:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by gsladenyc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know the saying "we don't realise what we have until it is gone". well, it serves her right!. What goes around comes around. i hope you can stand there and say thanks to her. Because if it wasn't for her, he wouldn't be with you. But, it does sound like that you feel threatened. You really do need assurance from your hubby that nothing will happen between them, as it seems that this is on your mind. Your hubby also needs to tell her to get lost, and get a life, as he is happy and in love with you. I hope she backs off. He needs to change his number and block her from sending emails too.Hope you get this sorted.
2007-02-05 07:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Solista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋