I'm really trying hard to fight my homosexual tendencies, especially around guys. What can I do?
2007-02-04 22:59:29 · 15 answers · asked by David Koehl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
that sucks that you are going through a period of self-hate.
a lot of folks go through this.
it might help if you read some books about self-acceptance.
or go to events/groups for gay men in your area where you can meet other men who have gone through something similar - as i said many others have gone through periods of internalized homophobia, only to eventually learn how to love and accept themselves.
you can do it!
2007-02-05 01:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by supposed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really feel that way? I am sure one of those 'Christian' bible brain washing groups would be happy to help you out(no pun intended).
I am sure you will get all kinds of answers, suggestions, and comments, especially since you are implying that being Gay is a sickness because you want to be 'cured', unless of course you are a piece of ham.
Whatever you decide to do, get some help and do not do anything dumb - Good Luck.
P.S. Hang around women and say you do not want to be gay. I know a guy that used that line to get all kinds of offers from the ladies.......
2007-02-04 23:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by dbdoit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit fighting them. Accept them and either live a life of celibacy or go find a nice guy with who to settle down.
No you can't be "cured". It is not a disease and you are not a ham.
2007-02-04 23:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Fight it! Homosexuality isn't natural but it is highly common in today's society.
By any chance, do you have a good relationship with your father/parents? If not, this could be the cause. Try communicating with your dad a bit more.
2007-02-04 23:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You can fight it. but you will end up losing. I know, I fought it for 41 years, and lost. Don't waste your life fighting who you are, accept it and enjoy life.
2007-02-04 23:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A persons sexually orientation isn't a matter of choice, it's simply part of who you are. My advice is don't fight it, go with it. I've seen too many people suffer in silence, rather than accept who they are.
2007-02-04 23:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Glen M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can ...anyway...anytime..if you want...Did you do it?If no , be happy and celebrate it...It is a temptation coming from satan ...according to the Bible and the lives of saints...God destroyed Sodom and Gomora, sending fire over them..If you did it..drop it , leave it just right now, and try to forget it , to be ashamed about it, and ask forgivness from God, then try to find that the women are very beautiful, try to find a beautiful woman , an innocent woman .I don't know if God would give her to you , but go to church , try to discover the woman , anyway..Leave the men...Men are for women ...just for women , you already are ..a man ..What else do you need ?Try to be fascinated by woman..but you have to find the true love ...and if you want to find it , you must give up sinning ..looking for men...because God shall hide the true love from you ...if you do so ..because he protects the innocent women...
I am an ortodox ..Talk to an ortodox priest...or do as I suggested to you...Aren't you curious to discover a true woman and live a true life?Anyway , ignore your homosexuals tendencies , they are comming from satan ..the fallen angel who wanted a glory like the one deserved only by God..Satan wants to destry our lives..Don't be afraid ..you can fight against these tendencies , against sin ,and against hell..all depends on you...Give up looking at men ..look at them politely and that is all..It is women's busiiness to study the eyes of men , their body , their style etc..You must study woman's style , woman's behaviour, woman's eyes...women's smile ...If you want to fall in love you must find a real woman not an artificial one..Learn to look at men the way you look at God , and learn to watch only woman differently...searching for the eyes who loves you.,..
2007-02-04 23:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Find a mascline looking lady, lol
2007-02-04 23:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well.......they used to give people eletric shocks everytrime they looked at a man, (like clockwork orange), but i wouldn't suggest it! maybe you should take your tendancies out on a bar of soap or something!
2007-02-04 23:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u cant. dont worry. it really doesnt matter. and if people are that stupid to think you can be cured then there morons.
2007-02-04 23:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋