Hi...im 23f..married 2 yrs. My husband just doesnt traet me good...hangs up on me all the time if i dont agree on something...he just in many ways i dunno. he almost chested on me once with s girl on thr internet which was me...he denied it....his brother ows me alot of money and he sais thats my oroblem with is brother... i mean...thsi guy dont act liek a husband. i also now can be intersted in soemoen else.....i was in love for 3 years always after him and worry abot him. i got tired. i never thought i can want someoen else but he dont give me the attention i need....and i feel hes not interested in me. ive done alot for him and he sais i havnt done anything for him....the sex isnt even good...1 a week like 2 min...and he watch porn alotttt behing my back...but not interest in me. Im very very pretty and have a good body he never is wanting me alot...why? i asked him and i just feel hes not into me...he looks at moms and oldr moms on the porn site whats that mean????
2007-02-04 22:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i cant say everthign here...but should i divorce him...i feel my lofe is wasting im always depressed....he always snap at me blame me...always saying imnot good wife and i do everything....i handle everythign and he just keep putting me down. Im not prfect but...im scared to sperate...he sais u wanna leave me with nothing...cuz the house is mine and the car is mine...i mean what do i do??? he has a brother here is that wrong for me if we seperate for him to go stay with his brother am i screwing him over?? i just dont trust him....his cell phone bill comes to the house but no numbers show this means he requested this.....he denises it ,,,and sais anyways its non ure business who i call ect.....hes weird right??? or is it me?
2007-02-04 22:41:43 · update #1
It sounds like you are both missing the main parts to a relationship and love. If you don't respect each other,trust each other, have consideration for each other, you have nothing. I think you knew your answer before you asked the question. It can be scary thinking about leaving a relationship and being alone, but if you don't then years down the road you are gonna regret not doing it cause nothing will change except get worse. You deserve to be happy and it is not going to happen here.Get past the hurt and move on. Time will heal the broken heart, but not if you stay.
2007-02-07 03:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Broadgonebiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you coming here looking for a reason to be divorced?
Reality is you are bored , looking at another guy already and trying to justify cheating.
That's not very becoming.
All the reasons are there, lack of attention, brother in law, sex not good, watches porn etc.
One little sentence there is this guy from three years ago. . . . . . .
Quit trying to build your case because all you excuses are behavior which can be fixed if you want.
Have fun with your lover.
2007-02-05 08:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is very wrong in your relationship. Fix this one or get out of it before you jump into another mess. What kind of person will trust a married person that is cheating on their spouse? You don't want that one either.
2007-02-05 08:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help... I hope your spelling is one thing you work on when you get out of this misery as you note. Go to school and find a man with a education/or trade. Good luck.
2007-02-05 08:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't make him happy get a divorce
2007-02-08 18:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you waiting for...kick his butt out....
2007-02-05 07:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋