I m going to marry a girl she is more and more educated than me. Is this (education) effects our relationships. Due to very high pressure from her parents only she aggres to marry with me.
What i do ? Is our married life affect this ?????
Can anybody help me.
2007-02-04 22:27:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're stupid she'll crave someone she can have a reasonable conversation with who doesn't just care about what she can do in bed or cleaning house, so she'll leave you for someone else.
2007-02-04 22:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true story. . .I met this person and during our conversation he was telling me that he had just told his wife to quit her job. She was better educated, got a better job and made more money than him. He said it made him feel like less of a man. I told him that it would take more of a man to understand that together they provide for their family and their money should be one. If she takes a job that pays less, there will only be less for the children. This is a man that married his wife because he loved her and wanted to be with her and raise a family.
I'm obviously from a different culture but I don't understand marrying anyone that doesn't want me. I would never be able to sleep with them or want anything to do with them. I guess in arranged marriages you learn to care but then you seem only worried because she may be better educated. See I don't understand at all.
2007-02-05 06:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, education will not affect your relationship. This all depends upon the girl as to how much she is interested in you. If in her married life she is satisfied and happy with you, she will be your faithful wife. You said that due to pressure f rom her parents, she has agreed for marriage with you. This point needs consideration . It means that she was not agreeing for the marriage with you. This reason can cut up your relation and not the education. In marrige life, you try to please your wife. She will then realize that she has not done any thing wrong and she will be your good wife and you her good husband. Good Luck.
2007-02-05 06:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, this woman is only marrying you because her parents are pushing her into it. Regardless of the educational level of either partner, that is not a good start to a happy marriage. If I were you, I would not marry a woman who did not freely choose me as her life partner.
2007-02-05 06:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Money does not make a person. Would it be better for her to be with someone who made more money and didn't really love her or a man who made less and would be there for her through the good and bad times. Utimately, she has to make that decision and you have to be comfortable with her making more more or having more education. Just because you don't have the education now doesn't mean that you can take one class at a time and advance yourself.
2007-02-05 06:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by JusMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl not to marry you just because her parents are forcing her. And yes in future there are chances that she might feel superior to you as she is more educated. But now-a-days I don't think ppl will feel they are superior cz of their education.
2007-02-05 06:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Advengal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the bigger issue is that she is being forced to marry you, not that she is more educated. If you both wanted the marriage, as long as you didn't feel too threatened by her education and you both could find common ground, it could work out fine.
2007-02-05 06:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter the level of education a woman entertains, she is the wife and you are the husband, if she is nice she will certainly give you the respect you deserved. its al about love.
2007-02-05 06:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not worry about that cause women
they believe are more smart anyway so enjoy that!!
PS play the stupid part sometime can be very gratifying
and they love it!!!!
2007-02-05 06:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by frostycookies9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss with her and then tell her that she has to decide instead making life hell after marriege and then repenting.
2007-02-05 06:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by Paassion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋