i no some men just say that they love there girlfriends but dont really mean it,how do you no when someone honestly loves you,is there any sort of signs to look for? i no this is a stupid question but im confused as to weather my boyfriend really loves me or not.
2007-02-04 22:18:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you don't immediately.How can you?! You just give it time, before giving a bloke you all, and then you will learn whether you can trust him or not. You will know in time whether he is worth your love and trust or not. That's' why so many broken families happen these days- it is all too rushed. But by then its all a mess with children involved. Time and sensibleness is what is needed
2007-02-04 22:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello sweetie it's very normally for you to be asking this question, so no it's not a stupid ?. Look no there aren't really any signs when it comes to how people truely feel. But if he loves you believe me you'll know it in your heart. If your boyfriend treats you good, does sweet little things w/o you knowing it, wakes up every morning to kiss you and tell you that he loves you, isn't scared to show you off to everybody etc... then he loves you. All you really can do is believe, if your heart feels like he loves you then go with it cause if you start haveing second thoughts about if he loves you or not it might end up running him off. I hope you figure out your problem and I hope I helped. But one thing to always remember is true love is very hard to fine, but once it crosses your path then dont ever let it go cause you'll never find anything else like it.
2007-02-04 22:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love... What IS it?!
It is not just men/boys who say they love when they perhaps do not! Women/girls can do this as well.
And that is not a bad thing.
No one is able to say "I love you" and know that is the be all and end all of emotion. For how can ANYONE tell that it IS? Maybe you do love someone, and then along comes someone else and you realise that what you feel for them is more than for the other person?
Having said that- if a young man tells you that he loves you it is usually a good sign that he does. Men, by nature, are less inclined to bandy the word "Love" about QUITE as readily as we are. ;-)
And loving someone is about action. Look to see if his actions make you FEEL loved. If they do then you are a lucky girl indeed. If not you may need to love yourself more and say something! If the result is better then you know for sure that this person loves you enough to give more.
Good luck.
2007-02-04 22:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn,t a stupid question. Only time can tell so enjoy
while you can. Don,t put to much on anything. You don,t
say how old you are. But the last time I worried about whether
a boy really loved me was when he wanted his wicked way with me!! So take time.
2007-02-04 22:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by not just saying it all the time,its the little things they do for you,and never putting you down,they should also stand by you,
some men just say it all the time,and buying flowers dosnt mean they love you,on valentines day,thats all commercialised,it shouldnt take a day too prove there love,they should do it other days,but gifts dont prove there love,
telling you you look nice,even when you look a mess,and laughing at your jokes even when there crap,never laughing at you with his mates,and always putting you first,before his mates,if he does that,then he must love you,
words are easliy said and gifts are easily bought,i little handwritten note,can mean more than a bunch of flowers,
and him running you a bath with lighted candles etc can mean more than a bunch of flowers,as hes put thought and effort ionto it,
so its the little things he does,not the big fancey gestures,
and always being there for you,whenever you need him,
2007-02-04 22:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by craftyliz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no definitive way of knowing how anyone really feels it comes down to trust, but you could try, telling him your not ready for sex, if he doesn't try to pressure you into having sex then he probably does care about your feelings, hope that helps.
kby
2007-02-04 22:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isnt any one thing that can tell you if someone loves you, you just have to tust them
2007-02-04 22:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words....
2007-02-08 05:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, you'll know.
2007-02-04 22:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Alisha! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its a matter of sense ... no one can answer this question for u
2007-02-04 22:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋