what do you think?
2007-02-04 22:10:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yup the can if you both try hard enough. I had a long distance relationship with my wife for the first several months we knew each other. We talked every night and wrote letters. The key to making this work is to keep a mutual assurance that you both want to make it work. Love knows no boundries distance included. I have been married for ten years and our time apart was the best thing for us, we got to know each other intimatly and deeply on a personal basis before things like sex and personal quirks could drive us apart. We are so much closer than we could have been face to face, the time apart forced us to explore each other on a mental basis so by the time we finally got to be together there was a bond that was so strong on a mental basis, we had no secrets and none of that shy awkwardness that you get face to face it was such a relief to be able to talk completly freely without feeling like she was looking and judging me.
2007-02-04 22:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by faern2877 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
80% of those relationships fail..but long distance relationhsips do work..it's just that, it requires more effort from both sides to acquire stability. Trust is vital and so is faithfulness. I do feel that its better not to be in any long distance relationship to start with, but if u are already in one, then just try to compromise and trust your partner.
2007-02-05 06:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard situation.I know it very well...The taste of pain, because i miss him, is now a routine, cause i taste it every day.Love is the only thing that keeps you connected.And that's why it has to be strong. Also Trust. If these two exist, you have a base...
2007-02-06 05:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, on the persons commitment and effort to work it out. Mine hadnt work but my ex yes! and he is getting married with the girl so i guess it all depends on you both determinate you want to be together and fight for it, it can be really hard sometimes but i guess you should try if not you will always wonder ;)
2007-02-05 06:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can work, but the sooner you get together in the same town/city/home, the better. If you don't come together in the same location, it will probably not work. Good luck, regards Pen xx
2007-02-05 06:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the people who are in the relationship... It's all up to you two whether it's going to work out or not.
2007-02-05 06:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Makenzie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can if both parties are willing to put in the extra effort that a LDR needs
2007-02-05 07:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its like playing catch with a baseball with someone who is 2 miles away from you. No matter how hard you try to make it go, It wont make it. Also if you want the relationship to last then you love the person so I guess you dont love them enough to move with them.
2007-02-05 06:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by brennan c 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No it can be maid to work but love shouldn't be forced like that You need togetherness to keep it going
2007-02-05 06:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by ohnodanoh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depend.
in my country there is a word. The eyes you don't see, you forget
them, but... if the love is real it`s possible to work.
2007-02-05 06:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by MIHAELA M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋