2007-02-04 21:24:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
depends on who you ask!
I think everyone would agree, though, that unsafe sex can lead to many problems such as teenage pregnancy. I also think that many people would agree that young people are prone to mistakes if not careful. If you haven't had sex, then you don't have to worry about the above. Which would and should be a big worry if you are really young.
Other people might say virgins are "missing out." Well, sex is fun. But most people will live a long life into their 70's. You have time to make up for it. Don't let Hollywood tell you its "uncool."
And don't let a fire and brimstone preacher tell you that you will go to hell, either, if you should.
Whether its "shameful" or not, its probably not in good taste to go around the high school talking about your sex life. So just keep your affairs discreet from others. It's none of their business. But don't 'make it' their business by advertising about it, either.
It seems like this fight is always the "virgins" versus "the male/female whores". Most people I think are in the middle. Most people had sex before marriage but most people aren't "whores." Just don't advertise it in public. Keep it kept to private conversations with people you trust.
2007-02-04 21:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not an American, but I don't think their culture sees female virginity as a shame.
2007-02-04 21:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually praised for females to stay virgins, and it's shameful for guys to be virgins. Guy virgins are seen as immature and inexperienced, not yet a man. Girl virgins are seen as pure and innocent, mature enough to stay a virgin until marriage.
2007-02-04 21:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The beauty of American culture is that it is your [or their] own free choice to stay a virgin or not. Nobody will stone or kill you. Both are fully accepted. Is that not great? It is that little thing called freedom
2007-02-04 21:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's the case at all. I'm a girl, and a virgin, IN America, and people highly respect me because of that. I'm not falling for "temptation" or anything. I'm waiting. A guy, on the other hand, may have problems with that though. XD
2007-02-04 21:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because young American males have yet to discover the joy of performing cunnilingus in exchange for fellatio--or even just for the satisfaction of providing extreme pleasure for their partner--and they're impatient. There would probably be a LOT fewer bi and lesbian women if guys would get with the program and start using their tongues for something other than just talking.
Oh, what I would give to run my tongue over a pair of labia that have never been parted by someone else's throbbing member!
2007-02-04 22:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by S D Modiano 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never herd of it as shameful for girl to stay a virgin....usually it's praised.
2007-02-04 21:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by shark_315 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not comprehend everyone who frowns upon being a virgin till after marriage. that is a personal determination that i imagine all of us ought to make quicker or later. i did not wait till marriage, yet my husband is the in common words guy i have had sex with, and that i take delight interior the actual incontrovertible truth that i will claim that.
2016-11-25 03:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there so many girl that are not virgin
2007-02-04 22:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by anna marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...just for the white girls. Turn on MTV and that will show you how promiscuous they are.
2007-02-04 22:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋