my dob is 5th may 1983.& my husband's dob is 9th augst1977. i love him too much . he also loves me too.but our thinkings are different on some topics. so we can't communicate properly.plz give me solution. i am having a baby whose dob is 19th may 2006
2007-02-04 20:59:38 · 16 answers · asked by rupali n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to find common interest talk to him if he is fair he will listen
2007-02-04 21:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person has different temperament and responds accordingly to various situations and issues.As both of you love each other, the problem is within your mind.If on certain issues you have different views, simply agree to disagree, but it should not spoil your relationship. In any case if both of you have same views on everything, will life be not extremely boring. With a baby around, life for the mother gets really tough as she is not able to devote as much time and attention to her husband and he starts feeling neglected. Ask your husband to share some household chores and let him get involved so that you will have time for him also and he will not feel neglected. I am sure this way you will be able to develop a close emotional relationship. Wishing you a very happy married life.
2007-02-04 21:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody think differently, but then don't try to say that you are emotionally different than your husband, age is never a constraint in loving anybody, you say he loves you and you love him too, keep that love alive.
If you want to speak about things since you both love each other go and speak to him in a polite manner, he will understand, women think men are stubborn and hard but that's not so, they are like a little baby from inside try and speak to him on various topics and he will understand.
2007-02-04 21:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by betterplacein 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main difference is that u believe in hardwork, systematic business, etc. U know the value of money and also know that u have to earn with hard work. Your husband likes to relax and be treated as a king, dress well, mix with other girls, party out etc. He does not understand your language of 'earn your daily bread' while u don't understand his show off business, and lavishness without earnings. Your element is solid earth, where u toil to get fruits, while his element is fire, that burns and plays, and expects to be treated like a king.
2007-02-04 23:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No two people in the world are the same and that's what makes life interesting. The secret is to accept each other's differences. You cannot alter him and he cannot alter you. Don't look at it as a problem. That's just the way life is. You are married and you have a child. Now, you two have to work it out together. Good luck.
2007-02-04 21:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a baby you have to give much attention to him, might be your husband is feeling ignored.Give him more time. Finish all your daily work before he comes back from office.Let him feel that you want to spend time with him.Let him feel important . Don't tell him every-days common problems because he is already in tent ion.Let him relax when he comes back from office,serve him tea and snacks with smiling face. Lets hope it works.
Good Luck.
2007-02-05 21:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by ud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,trust your relationship. Talk openly with your husband, don't hide things. Always keep emotional differences within your home. Have family gathering from both sides and solve it with more experience people.
2007-02-05 03:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, you don't have to agree on every little topic that runs it's way into your mind. Find a compromise or agree to disagree. As for your baby, you're still having her? Ouch!
2007-02-04 21:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear take ur own decisions,
life is like a coin which have 2 face but it seems 1 coin if u love him soooooooo much u have to contribute some extent thats called love. once he came to know about ur sacrify automaticaly he will come to your way
then u enjoy with him............
most of guys listen wife words on night time try it.....
it will work.....
2007-02-04 21:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by manu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dates of births shouldn't matter long as you love your husband and he loves you or the babys birth what diference does a birthdays mean on diffrent month and days and years its in the heart that counts
2007-02-08 09:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋