2007-02-04 20:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by Era S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like you need to bin him, he obviously aint interested, he sounds very immature, you could do better.
2007-02-04 20:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
And, what have you learnt from this relationship....
About him?
About yourself?
I've no idea how long this relationship / situation has been going on for, but if you have not learnt by now that 'he is not going to give you want you want to hear, then That Is It.
In a way, I'm reminded of a TV programme where they showed guys who 'had relationships with (full size) plastic dolls.'
'Relationships' are interactive, give and take ~ feedback and reactions to what's said, and so on, something that has or can have significant meanings and implications for us both / each.
That does not seem like what you have, and what you have is not what you want because it is inadequate to your needs.
Does this signify anything to you! Or are you likely to be making the same statement and asking the same question (of him) for some time to come?
Go find another tree to bark up at, and see if you get a better response.
Good luck.
Sash.
2007-02-05 23:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes men find it hard to say those three little words that we long to hear. it doesnt mean that they dont l;ove us its just that they have insecurities in that department. so dont go binning him straight away.
ask yourself a few questions first:
1 does he laugh at you jokes?
2 does he kiss you with passion?
3 does he hold you hand in public places?
4 does he kiss you goodnight?
these all might sound like stupid little questions but after you start asking yourself them you will realise that infact he does love you and all the facts point to it.
he may jusy be a little scared of telling you how he feels.
not all men can spill those three little words from there lips. some have to make sure that they really mean it !!
and to me it just sounds like a few insecurities!!
good luck darling i hope it all goes well for you !!!
everyone deserves to be happy !!!
2007-02-05 08:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by divsgeordiebird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very needy and desperate.
If I was your boyfriend, I would run a mile away from you.
Just because a guy doesnt want/love you, doesnt make him immature... only insecure girls say this as an answer.
2007-02-05 05:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop asking.... play hard to get, dont call/ text. leave him to do the running, if he doesnt then look elsewhere lifes too short to be with a plonker
2007-02-05 16:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by kazzy3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he couldn't answer that then obviously 'he don't'. Get out of there before it's too late. Love is out there, you can find the real one too.
2007-02-05 04:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ann M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked same question other night he told me he doesnt love but still wants to havee sex with me .whats that about
2007-02-05 04:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by MARGARET H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are putting him on the spot and he dont like it
wait for him to tell you then you will know he really means it
2007-02-05 11:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may care about you but love is a different thing.
2007-02-08 05:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by phelps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋