It is said that god is love & vice versa , i want to know one thing that once you are married then does god refrains you from loving someone or does god puts OFF a certain switch thus dis-abling your heart to love someone? or you may read that if you love someone after marriage then is it a sin ?
2007-02-04 20:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can, and indeed should, express true love for everyone, that has nothing to do with sex or romance.
2007-02-04 20:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every 1 wud give gyan on the righteousness abt being sacred to marriage n stuff.....am not into all that...just follow ur heart...thats like the best judge EVER!!! if u think ur gaining something outta it that u eva lacked then great....but then only thing bein be bold enuf to stand up n admit it....love happens...no 1 can stop the feeling...just make sure u dont put that up on the billboard with neon lites when u do it to some1 other than ur husband....u only live once in that if u can love as much do it....but refrain from sex and physical proximity if possible....coz that can surely mess up a person's brain....so not good afta marriage...but then expressing love vocally isnt bad.....trust me everyone who talks abt this so called "being true" to urself or ur husband doesnt really know exactly why u wanna fall in love with some other person all together .....prolly coz u LACK it in ur relationship.....n hell no in india...am sure "the Talk" between husband-wife anyways doesnt do great wonders....they just are so one sided that it doesnt really matters.....so just follow ur heart but be careful enuf not to get caught eva....good luck.....n yeah LOVE IS GOD......!
2007-02-08 04:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lemme_Know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let us understand the basic fundamental of marraige. Two persons of opposite sex, coming together, making commitments to each other that they would create a small little beautiful world of their own and stay in harmony with each other. Both are imparted some unique duties and both make vows that they would perform their duties honestly and with complete dedication.
If both of the pair understand their commitments towards each other and stick to them, they would enjoy the happiest married life ever. If one fails to stick on to it's commitments, that not only impacts these two lives but the upcoming generation too.
Loving someone after marraige is a major factor for huge problems with the marraige. It's just as good as walking out of marraige. This is the reason, the society has labelled it as a sin. Secondly that just suggests that you don't love your spouse at all and you are not a man of your words as you couldn't stick on to your commitments.
God just wants you to live a perfect life. Any act of yours creating a negative impact in the society or the nature is inhumane to Him. The rest is upto you to decide. He hsa given you the freedom to do whatever you want. Finally, you are gonna reap what you sow, right!!!
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2007-02-05 15:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha, yea and there's a switch that god puts in a man so that he can get an erection only after he's married because pre-marital sex is a sin.
2007-02-05 04:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you are really talking about. most religions and many secular ethicist believe one should not have sex outside of marriage. God has supplied you with a switch- it is called choice. if you choose to corrupt and or destroy your marriage then you turn the switch on. if you wish for your marriage to last you set the switch to off.
2007-02-05 04:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by louis d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called self control and freedom of choice. You choose to marry someone you love, therefore you do not go "looking" for love. We all have some common sense and there is no such thing as "I couldn't help myself".
2007-02-05 04:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't turn real love off bye a switch and god doesn't turn love off god is a good god don't blame god for bad marriges with out love in it blame that makes me mad lot of people blames god for failers when its the devils work blame saton
2007-02-08 17:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No some people fall out of love w/ their spouse and fall in love w/ other people. Its not right but it happens.
2007-02-05 04:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with your local community Church Priest or someone who has spiritual knowledge
2007-02-06 03:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad but there is no such switch.had there been any such thing than there wouldn't be any broken homes,extra marital affairs and hidden families
2007-02-08 14:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋