Small Penis Complex?

Question

Yet another posting on this page about penis size, the biggest question in the male species. So heres my beef.

I have a small penis, go figure. Soft its basically an embarrassment because it doesn't pertrude, it looks like a scared turtle, hard its at around 5 1/2 long and 5 around. I know this is low end average and blah blah. I've looked it up a lot. Heres my thing:

I just started dating one of my best friends in the world, I love her and care about her more than most people, in a non-romantic sense, and care about her very much in a romantic sense, but I know she really enjoys sex, and though I've had sex with people before and "had no complaints" it still worries the hell out of me. I was able to keep this coplex in check until now. Since I started dating her I've been keeping myself up nights crying about this, thinking about killing myself and worried that she'll get rid of me because of this. So my question is not about my size but my eff'd up mind. What do I do?

uh...wow....I'm actually surprised at so many responses so quick, and that everyone was extremely considerate and mature. I appreciate it.

Answer 1

If you had no complaints before, why are you worrying that much?? In relationship, respect is the most important thing. If she leave you just because the size of you dick, she not deserved to be with you.

Answer 2

You are silly to worry over something you cannot change. The size of your penis is fine. A vagina is only 4 inches long, so any longer is a waste.

Concentrate on other skills like oral sex too.

But don't forget, a pleasing personality and a sense of humour is far more attractive to a girl than a long penis.

Answer 3

Here is what I have to say about that. 5 and a half long is not that bad. If you had micropenis then I would worry but obviously you don´t. My penis looks real small when it is soft. But it is flattering to see it literally multiply in front of the girls´ eyes. Anyway for a guy about your size, I would recommend the maximum thrusting positions. Put her on her knees, eat her out from behind (if she is not too conservative she will probably love it) and when she is really wet, go inside, start slow, rub her butt, and reach around and rub her clit too, encourage her to do that herself (so it´s like she is masturbating in the doggy position) and go all out getting it up in that wet-piece. She WILL enjoy it. Good luck, and lots and lots of practice. Love and respect.
Peace

Answer 4

yo dude....first of all..you are right when you say it's low end average..but you are wrong when you said "it doesn't protrude" i dont believe you on that..but the fact remains..it's not small....well i figured out that it's not the size that you are worrying...but your mind...just think about this....you said there had been "no complaints" in the past so why bother about it now? you are right about it...and there will be no complaints in the future if you set your mind the way it was...well it's not fair when you think that way about yourself...because the mind is really powerful..it can overpower the physical aspect... if you think BIG..then it's big enough for her...well also think about this...maybe she is also worrying right now...worrying whether she has big breasts...worrying in the same way....why be ashamed when you already are confident in the first place? Think about that. Think again....

Answer 5

Anyone who would dump you based on 'size'...is not a person you want to be with...but some how, I don't think it will matter,..she might be having the same kind of insecure feelings about herself..her boobs, etc, lol..you never know,....this is the reason it is wonderful to be friends with someone first...you sound pretty average to me, and it ain't the meat, its the motion...many men don't realize that only superficial women would complain..learn to be a fantastic lover, if you aren't already, and don't worry about it...but GET MARRIED FIRST LOL

Answer 6

Don't stress out about it. The more you stress, the worse you are going to make it. You are going to go into it telling yourself you are bad, and it is going to happen because of that, not because of your penis size. She will be perfectly happy with your penis size, trust me.

Answer 7

This is something you have to deal with yourself. It sounds like you can function OK. Get over it and try to put it out of your mind.

Answer 8

Dear frustrated,
who told you you were in the small average end? uh? there wasa survey with college students were average was 5.1 inches and 4.7 girth (around) so I think you are okey? why worrie?

This is in my own writing, it wasn't copy and pasted, enjoy it, it took me a while to write it and hope is beneficial to everyone. Thanks.

Since I have answer to many of these question regarding penis sizes, i recollected most of my answers, read it and you make be satisfy with a correct answer.
The reported statistics vary, but some of the more credible measurements taken from a sample of college men in a large university town revealed that the average erect penis is between 5-6 inches when measured from the base of the penis to the tip along the top side. The vast majority of erect penises (>85% of men) fell between 5-7 inches. The erection of course was the great equalizer since the measurements of flaccid penis lengths varied considerably.

less than 4 inches is way below ! >4.5-5.0 moderate > 5.0- 6.3 (average 65% of any male u encounter are around this size!) > 6.7 (10-20% of popul) more than average > 7.2-9 less than 10% (gifted) > 9+ thats a big ******* story! ahhaah 0.1% of the male population *(Different web site and researches show these stat as the average penis 5.1, 5.7, 5.9, 5.877 from these numbers you can conclude what’s average, since all those are say to be average, I guess they are diff because are taken in different regions, let say if u take the same test in china you would find out that 4.7 is average! and 6 is to big. well other internet survey say to be 6.2 so is funny because it does not match with true measurement, so self measurements adds more than 2 cm. Be proud of what you have, the average vagina is about 3-4 inches so there is no problem filling up that space! and if the woman loves you, there is no problem.. but everyone wants a bigger penis even I and i have 7.3 :) .... **** dont they say smaller pennis stand up longer? enjoy
you don’t worry; I bet money that 80% + those that make fun of other with small organs have less than 6.6 inches! cuz only 10% of the population have over 7 inches!
do stretching it may give u a few cm
will know ur final size when u reach 17... you will gain from .2-1.5 inches from that age up to 17!


BUT IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN KNOWING THE IDEAL AND DREAM SIZE, Here goes **

The ideal penis would be above average size (if you were given a woman what would you pick the same girl with smaller or bigger breast? yes is possible you pick above average and not to big either, is the same thing for penis..) what would that size be? hmm I would definitely say 7-8 inches x 6 inches of circumference..thats a bit bigger than porn actor though, most porn actors have between 6-7 inches but since their are bellow 6 feet their penis look bigger on them... and so there are porn actor with more than 8 inches...(note that those male actors on the internet with mega penis are mostly the same people...there aren’t many with over 10 inches...) like I said is preference some woman may prefer something smaller then 5 inches... or something bigger than 7 ... but at the end you will love a woman with small tities you usually never dump her for that.... it happens to be the same with women and our penis... Hope this helps..

forget the motion of the ocean.... sorry girls but a 4 inch guy can do what a 7 inch penis do ( if they know what they are doing of course)vaginas are 2-2.5 inches wide therefore a penis with girth of 6 inches will reach and stretch you so all ur nerves are receiving pressure, so is ur G spot everything is done by PRESSURE, NOT THE MOTION OF THE OCEAN learn that....a 5 inch penis can almost do the same thing but give the same person different sizes and u will see the different of course anything over 9 inches can hurt and less pleasure but anything from 7-8.5 inches is the BEST of sizes of course if it has 6-6.5 inches of girth


I had like 6.5 when I was 16 and now I am 18 it is 7.3,.. Don’t feel bad, try doing exercises like stretching! maybe u gain something in 1 month! keep going if u see any gain maybe instead of gaining 1 inch.. u gain 2-3!
penis sizes!
less than 4 inches is way below ! >5.2 moderate > 5.5- 6.3 (average 60 % of any male u encounter are around this size!) > 6.7 (10-20% of population) more than average > 7.2-9 less than 5% (gifted) > 9+ that’s a big ******* story! ahhaah 0.1% of the male population

yo, u have 4 in so what? u can satisfy any woman, plus u are oriental so u may be with Orientals so u are in the normal size for Orientals.. even a person with 3.5 in penis could satisfy an oriental woman! try doing penis massages, i dont know if they work. I do them sometimes but have seen no gains but after all i dont need it, i am like 7.3 inches. :) ur orientals women have seen shorter penis than that i bet!


first measurement is soft(unerect, second is erect penis size in inches. Hope it gives you an idea.

United States 3.4/5.0
Germany - na/5.6
Spain - na/5.3
France 4.7/6.2
Japan 3.1/5.1
Brazil - na/4.8
Italy 3.9/5.9
Venezuela 3.7/5.0
Mexico - na/5.9
Greece - na/4.8
India - na/4.0
Saudi Arabia - na/4.9
Chile - na/5.5
Colombia 3.5 5.4
Korea 2.7 3.7

My words are truly and not made to hurt anyone's feelings, I am just answering, I don't know you and probably don't know me either, so I don't win anything from lying.
:)

let the truth be told.


I found this site.... pretty good put ur size where it says ([pick your erection length) hehe see where you stand..
http://www.afraidtoask.com/members/mgeni... (the graph shown tell us an average of about 6 inches… which isn’t true, if u read what I wrote above averages range from 5.0-5.7 so, let say if u happen to have 5.25 inches and the graph gives u are bigger than only 10% isn’t quiet true, you can be bigger than 20-30% and like if u have 6 inches u may be in the 60 -70% not in the 50% where the graph says…. I just add this graph because I found it cool.)

Answer 9

well if you and her love each other very much and you are a good match then it will not mater.

Answer 10

IF YOU REALLY CARE FOR EACH OTHER, SIZE DOESN'T COUNT, REALLY. ANYWAY YOUR NOT SMALL, MOST ARE YOUR SIZE OR SMALLER.