But than he doesn't really want lose me either I am sick of him thinking he is not enough for me. I have always tried to show him how much I love him and I really do love him.. But he says things that just breaks my heart and he can be very cruel.. I cry myself to sleep and he just watches and tries to make me think that he likes watching me cry..
I love him and he pulls back when I try to leave
What do I do?
2007-02-04 18:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is called emotional bullying. He treats you cruelly then puts on the I need sympathy when he wants it. Lose the freak and get a proper relationship. What he is offering you is not love.
2007-02-04 18:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He certainly does need help, he's going through a grieving process and not very well at that!
He is using emotional blackmail & it's a major test for you, I'd suggest both of you seek counselling.
He needs to hear that you have limits & if he's not willing to seek help for himself then you need to put youself at number one.
If you do have to leave it's because of him you are not responsible for him!!
I reitterate, you're not responsible!!
Please don't get into the rescuer thing, he & any other man will play you for it.
Take care & look after yourself
2007-02-05 03:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by bejay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi SWEETIE, He is really abusing you. I know he has lost a leg,but he doesn't have to hit your over the head with it. You have try,and all you get back is hate. I think it's best if you move on with your life,and find someone who deserve you. He will not change believe me. You need to get out now!!! A Caring Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-05 02:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably needs psychological help and in all probability, he will not seek it. Maybe write a letter to his doctor and tell him what is going on. The doctor can not talk to you about your boyfriend, but you can talk to the doctor. This is a trauma to him and he lost part of himself. He probably needs professional help to get him on. Support groups for him would be great. Even though it is him who lost his leg, most support groups will be grateful to help the loved ones of those in need.Search for support groups in your area.
2007-02-05 02:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋