Why most people all over the world most of the time getengaged with sexual thoughts,speech, fantasies,acts?

Question

As Pshychologist Frued said, "all human activities are oriented towards sexual gratification and satisfaction", people most of the time enegaged themselves with such thoughts, conversations, jocks, acts, literature,etc. And most of the world famous leaders, celebrities are victimised with such charges related to sex. It loooks like people can't think beyond it or rise above this. In a way humanith is caught up with it. That's why there not so much of intelectual, psychological and spiritual, maturity other philosophical developments. Why do you think people entertain such thoughts and activities.

Answer 1

While posing this question, don't you feel yourself feeling the urge? It is for every body to feel. It is no secret. All the so called excercises are only in the direction of sublimating sex.

Answer 2

If you are inclined toward Hindu Dharma, the belief is that the second chakra in the human body rules both sexuality (physical reproduction) and fantasies (mental reproduction, as it were). Since most people do not raise their consciousness above that level, they stay stuck there and their appropriate need for more and more life and experience is forced to express itself in that area only. It all comes down to survival, sex satisfaction, desire for sex satisfaction, power, food, etc. There is some first chakra in there too, but so much of it has to do with the second chakra. If these people were inclined toward a spiritual practice of any kind, their experiences and situations would resolve quite a bit.

As well, it must be considered that notoriety is the best advertising (and it's free!) and sex sells, so here you get all this garbage about celebrities doing such and such a naughty thing... Frankly, I don't believe half of them do even half of what is ascribed to them... but that's Show Biz!

Answer 3

It's our 2nd most important built-in "drive"..It is a God-given good thing in it's proper place. U can't rely on what some so-called "psychologists" have said. Freud was a big-time cocaine freak, & if u really wanna get some freaky ideas about sex, start doin' a lotta coke - the "REAL" thing, not just that stupid "crack-'cocaine". That stuff is made from a little of the real stuff diluted with baking soda, & formed into "rocks",& u won't get enuff of that...u'll always be "chasing a high". Naawwhh. trust me, u dont wanna go down that road. It's normal to think about sex at times, and it is one of human's basic drives, but our society has over-emphasized it, & used it to get ur attentyon 2 try 2 sell u stuff. That's all, there IS a time & place for everything, & if u get ur priorities in the correct order, u'll understand the proper place for sex, & if u do it right, it is a wonderfull & beautiful thing..Dont be misled - question everything, especially if sexuality is involved, but dont get sidetracked...check it all out. Usually the "sex" part is just 2 get ur attention. (It works, doesn't it?)

Answer 4

It is part and paarcel of humanbeing, that'swhy most of the people are get engaged with sexual thoughts,speech,and fantasies but but not most of the time ofcourse sometimes which is eventual and as a humanbeing we cannot avoid it,.and entertaining such thoughts and activities is not a sin, and at the sametime every humanbeing to entertain such thoughts on certain occassions thereby the chain of events will continue.

Answer 5

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i don't know about you, but I used to have very mixed feelings about sex and/or a relationship with someone else. When I was in counseling, my therapist would say this is normal for everyone. "Sometimes you want it, sometimes you don't," she'd say.

Then I'd chime in: "and sometimes you want it with someone else and other times, you're better off alone."

Since sex isn't just about procreation anymore, I think that's what makes it so confusing for people. What's right? What's wrong? How do you handle the mechanics of sex, your sexual desires, and balance that with any emotional feelings you may have?

Self-esteem plays a big role in how you feel about sex and how you handle relationships. Communication is another big issue. You need to learn how to talk in a way so the other person can hear and understand you.

Answer 6

What u said is 100% true. People now a days by advertising, they are more and more influenced by the present generation. They are attracted towards movies, clubs, pubs etc. Each and every person is looking in the same way and culture part we can as well forget what has happened. Now a days it has become a major drawback and weakness of people. Both are influencing the same.

Answer 7

Its a natural act of pleasure... Also this is something a psyc. will tell you there is a ego, id and super ego.. The id is what makes us think such things when the ego and super ego is beaten. Even the moral concept of superego cant over come at times and control the id which is the satisfying part of your mind that wants to see do and think naughty things.

Answer 8

An infant boy like his mother and a baby girl like her father more' why? when you become teenager you think of opposite sex for ten years' why? Two year after marriage we think of changing partner' why? The why is to whome is to self. The pleasure in sexual climax is unique and no money or relations can give that. Human nature is after pleasure. Even in intoxicated condition the mind and mood will turn towards a good opposite sex figure. I think people seek pleasure of sex thinks.

Answer 9

People have their minds on sex not because of what Freud observed, but because ADULTS promote sex, drugs, and violence. Like someone just expressed, children do not think about sex until they see it from some adult. And this is how we pass this on from one generation to the next. The desire to engage in sex is innate within humans. The programmer of the human spirit, soul, energy, or whatever one calls it set us on automatic for reproduction purposes. Although males think they charm the female, or the female seduces the male both are actual doing just what they have been programmed to do.

Answer 10

I think its because......all other feels are easily experienced by anyone......i may be wrong.......but you can experience the love and care of your mother even if you din go in search of it.......you can experience the care of your dad.....from the day you were born.......brotherliness......friendship.......is all inbuilt........were you thinking about sex when you were a kid......and once people start knowing that there is something like that......immediately they have an urge to know what it is.....and they immensely desire to know how the experience would be.......and once they had experienced....they feel that it is a means of self respect to themselves.....a girl feels happy when a boy praises her beauty....and a boy flies in air when a girl just smiles at him..... its all because they feel that they are getting their best identity in this means........and one more thing.......i feel that not all human activities are oriented towards sexual gratification....... i love my parents.......i love my friend........they care me a lot.......i love my job.......i love my kid.......where comes sexual gratification in this.....and thank you for asking this question.....many a times i too have thought about it.......

Answer 11

well according to me up to some extent freud may be right.But his opinion fails when man attains enlightenment.Which i think is the last thing that a human mind always seeks for .We can notice one thing in our day today life that , not a single thing gives complete satisfaction to us .Because the mind always craves for satisfaction and these worldly pleasures cant full fill that .
Only after meeting The God &realising ones ownself, (the soul that is deep within us) realises its aim in life and it gives immence pleasure to the soul as well to the mind .Only after this the mind realises that there is not a single thing left to be attained in this world it becomes truly happy and satisfied.It is a state where no further need arises be it sex or anyother thing .