2007-02-04 17:10:17 · 19 answers · asked by MIB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely!!! My husband and I separated after 21 years of marriage...never divorced.....we have worked out our problems gotten back together and now have almost 26 years together!!
2007-02-04 17:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by TNBelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes it is possible. There was a reason the two got together in the first place. But - you are missing many details that make all the difference in the world. How long has it been...why did they break up...etc. My wife left me for a couple months and asked for a divorce about a decade ago, moved in with another man for some of the time we were separated, and...this year its our 20th anniversary. Long story, but this other man is ancient history and somehow we fought through it and are happy again. Good luck.
2007-02-04 17:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible, because basically you have not fallen out of love with your wife. It is a good things because maybe this time you will both do things right. My husband and I got back together again but this time we worked on our relationship. Purchase the book LOVE AND RESPECT by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and read this; both of you, that is. You have to remember to tell her you love her and do this unconditionally and that is a command from God in Ephesians 5:33 and she will repect you again and love you regardless. It can work and it will and I think divorce is a terrible thing to go through. You have to forget the past and start afresh forgetting the unpleasnatries and letting them go. CHoose to override feelings and emotions and face things positively and confidently and lovingly. It will be even better if you do that. It is working for us and very well too.
2007-02-04 19:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with a year or two doesnt always mature you nevertheless it does provide you with time to reflect and change.. It will depend on how dangerous the connection used to be to start with.. But i wouldnt for my part advocate going back.. There isnt a powerful groundwork for the relationship, there may be already cracks and my bet is - its simply the idea of going again to what you realize and its dependable.. Nevertheless it doesnt imply its going to be better or exceptional. You've gotten achieved good to maneuver on in these last few years dont go back to him and make the equal mistake once more.. Discover a new guy so you've gotten the entire enjoyable and video games of a new relationship rather of going backwards! Excellent luck hun!
2016-08-10 15:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by crumble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin divorced and then remarried her husband. In their case, he continued to be a wonderful father to their daughter (approx 5 y.o. at the time), even while divorced. He never stopped loving my cousin. This helped make the decision to get back together a good choice for everyone. He still had everyone's respect and was welcomed back by his now wife, the daughter, and his wife's family.
They have now been remarried for over ten years. Their daughter is in college and remains very close to both of her parents.
2007-02-04 17:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by katnkaboodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first a year or 2 doesnt inevitably mature you notwithstanding it does provide you with time to replicate and adjust.. it relies upon on how undesirable the courting change into to commence with.. yet i wouldnt in my opinion recommend going decrease back.. there isnt a stunning good starting up for the courting, there is already cracks and my wager is - its merely the idea-about going decrease back to what you already know and its threat-free.. notwithstanding it doesnt recommend its going to be more effective or diverse. you've finished nicely to bypass on in those very previous couple of years dont bypass decrease back to him and make an identical mistake back.. hit upon a sparkling guy so that you've each and every of the relaxing and video games of a sparkling courting as a change of going backwards! good success hun!
2016-11-02 08:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, an ex is an ex for a reason. Unless you want a second helping of whatever it was that made things go sour the first time around, don't go there.
2007-02-04 17:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's highly possible. The two people still have love in their hearts for each other. If they can reconnect, the family can be very happy.
2007-02-04 17:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would really depend on the reason for the breakup, and if both people knew what caused the breakup, and were willing to stop the same behavior that broke it up in the first place. depends if they are still in love.depends on th reasons for going back with that person, any reason but love would not work.
2007-02-05 01:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible if they still love each other especially with kid.this of course can lead to happy family again.
2007-02-04 17:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋