My friend who is 48 had a wet dream involving me being wide open (if you know what i mean) then having sexual relations. Im curious in the fact that instead of being some other lady it was me you know.Oh yes, we are the best of friends and we are very emotionally intimate though we have gotten a little bit closer physically like kissing,touching, or hugging. I was glad that he came clean to me saying "i had a dream about you were you showed it all" but this dream must have something to do with a desire that derives sexually with me. So what do you think? Im not gonna worry about it too much but im simply curious in the underlying meaning according to his sexual dream. Thank you all and Take care.
2007-02-04 17:08:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Dreams are Gods way of telling us this is something you will never have. When you dream about sex, its the minds way of saying that person IS NOT the one for you. People think of sex dreams and turn them in to reality, because they are clueless and get their needed advice from something in a magazine, book, or someone with no qualifications about the subject matter. It seriously shouldn't done in that manner. I majored in psychology so trust me when i say this. "Dreams are bullsh!t"
2007-02-04 17:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always believed -that our dreams are our brains "free time". -Time to let it all "hang out" & explore all kinds of improbable possibilities. In this case, all it could mean is that this person cares for you enough to find you worth dreaming about- in THAT way... And you can "read" into that- whatever you will. I mean consider the alternative; would you be JUST as curious- if your friend never dreamed of you at all? Consider it a "compliment" of sorts, - but don't let either of you get "carried away". It's what you do during the light of day- that really matters. :)
2007-02-04 17:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think dreams are just kinda random. I have dreams, including sexual ones that mean absolutely nothing to me, and are more a result of little things I have seen thru out the day.
2007-02-04 17:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it at all. Dreams have no significance; they are apparently simply artifacts of the brain cleaning up the detritus resulting from a day's work.
2007-02-04 17:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not gay and spends extended periods of time with you and talks to you like a friend there is something you need to know. he wants to have sex with you. because why else would he expend so much energy on you. and he told you about his dream to feel you out. to see how open to the idea, of you two hooking up, you are.
2007-02-04 17:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams in general r very important to our health ,our mind try to relax in revolutional manner ,so u can c any one ,any thing ,but in ur case its clear , u r about to be like the dream but u r not ,so ur freind try to reach what he cant in true life ,he cant prevent himself from dreaming but it doesnt mean that he also cant prevent himself in actual life ..........so its ur choice ,be his dream and marry him"as no sexual realation out side marrage",or tell him with no ward that u r just freinds "no kissing or huges between freinds" and now u r both normal but need to be on the right way............wish u good luck
2007-02-04 17:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by malachit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that he told you about it is very telling. I would never tell women who are only friends about stuff like that.
2007-02-04 17:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Meridianhawk42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be that he dreamed that dream because he feels that he has gotten to know you in side and out.
2007-02-04 17:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by territheterribleliar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a move to me.
2007-02-04 17:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams mean nothing... but the fact that he told you about it, might mean something, like he was suggesting something to you
goodluck :) hope i helped
2007-02-04 17:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jessabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋