My boyfriend and I were fooling around and he put his penis in me a little bit..not all the way..but it hurt... so basically we started then stopped after a couple minutes. He didnt break my hymen and he didnt ejaculate... I talked to a couple of my friends and they said since he didnt even put it in all the way I am still technically a virgin. Is this true?
2007-02-04 16:19:31 · 11 answers · asked by conorisagenius 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The definition of virgin has a lot of twists.
If a penis has been in your vagina, you are not a virgin, no matter how much of your vagina was filled.
Now other people go with the "technical" virgin. Your hymen is intact, therefore you are a virgin.
My belief is "technical" virgins are not virgins. It is possible for a hymen to stretch around the penis without breaking. The hymen might stay intact until a baby is born, but would that also classify as a technical virgin?
2007-02-04 16:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Technically no, you are not a virgin. A virgin is define as someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse of any kind. Just because a guy doesn't ejaculate or go all the way in doesn't mean it doesn't counts as sex. Blood doesn't have to be present because not every girl bleeds their first time. Besides, the hymen is an outdated term and doesn't apply to virginity, because you can break your hymen or it wore away naturally by activities and sports. Next time, use a condom, be safe, and wait until you are ready.
2007-02-04 16:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The presence or absence of your hymen has nothing whatsoever to do with your virginity. How can it when some girls are born without a hymen? How can that make a newborn female baby a non-virgin?
In general, your virginity has everything to do with never having had a penis in your vagina. You are not a virgin.
He may not have ejaculated, but a man's lubrication (his prec*m) can contain sperm, and if sperm get anywhere on your vulva, the race to that mature ova is on. If your and your boyfriend are playing in this manner, you absolutely must practise safer sex techniques. That is, unless you and he are ready to be called Mommy and Daddy for the rest of your lives.
If you and your b/f know this little about how a woman's body works, how a man's body works, and in particular specifically how each of your own bodies work, you shouldn't be participating in sexual activities. Please note that this is not about your ages or about your marital status. It's simply whether or not you have the knowledge and the mental and emotional maturity for a sexual relationship.
2007-02-04 16:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not really you have felt what it feels to have a penis in you even if your hymen is intact. But in gods eyes you are always seen as pure.
2014-11-21 14:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Avi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tricky one my bff thought I wasn't a virgin anymore because I gave oral. but I lost my true virginity a few months ago he wasn't equiped well and he didn't break my hymen I only had sex once and alothough it didn't hurt and everything was still "intact" but there was penetration and I am not a virgin anymore.
2007-02-06 11:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is gonna hurt even if he didnt put it in all the way. if your hymen is intact your a virgin.
2007-02-04 19:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation as you and yes! i think your technically still a virgin because when you loose your virginity it hurts like hell and it will hurt for a couple of days not only that one time... did this happend to you?? if not i think your probably still virgin i mean dont get me wrong to some people it doesnt happend these way buit most likely. next time becareful honey
2007-02-04 16:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Either way you still had sexual intercourse, you ain't no virgin love!!
2007-02-04 17:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by teresa b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight so he put his johnson in you just a little tho...END OF STORY IF HE PUT IT IN EVEN JUST A LITTE...UVE HAD SEX JUST LIKE A SUPER SUPER SUPER QUICKIE OR I COULD BE WRONG DID U START BLEEDING?
2007-02-04 16:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still a virgin until your cherry is pooped. you will know when this happends because there will be blood every where.
2007-02-04 16:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by caligurl2729 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋