please don't report this, i need to have opinions....i had sex with my boyfriend last night and that's the second time but everytime we do he wears a condom and pulls out right before he gets off, i can't help but think that i still might be able to get pregnant, i just need to have some reassurance that it can't happen, cuz i've been feeling kinda weird lately. please help me, and please, no smart aleck remarks.
2007-02-04 15:30:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You arent going to want to hear this, but if you are worrying this much, you are not ready for sex. No matter how careful you are, babies happen. I got pregnant on my period, on the pill, using a condom. If you are not ready to spend the rest of your life with this person and raise a child with them, then you are not ready to have sex. ANY TIME that you have sex, a baby could be made. Its not fair to bring a child into the world if both of you are not ready and willing to raise and love it with all your hearts. Think about an innocent little baby... you would want to give it the best life right? You obviously arent ready for that, because you keep worrying. Sex is wonderful and worry-free when it is had by two people who are ready in every way. Otherwise, you have no business doing it. There are already too many children in the fostercare system, costing the government money, and some of them getting abused or neglected by strangers because their real parents were not responsible enough to take care of them. Had those parents just kept their pants on until they were ready, those children would have been born into loving homes. There are plenty of other ways to have fun. Get creative.
2007-02-04 15:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can still get pregnant even if he pulls out before he comes, because he could have released a small amount. This is what my OB doctor told me and told me that there is still a chance that you could be pregnant. About the only good way to tell is if you miss your period and don't start after a week take a home pregnancy test. If it comes out negative I would go into the doctor to get a blood test done to be sure. I felt weird when I had became pregnant the second time and every one kept telling me that I wasn't pregnant and then I found I was after two months. The blood test can say negative, but if you still don't get your period then kept going for a blood test every week, because that is what I did until two months later. I would also be very careful with the condoms because they can break and you not being a ware of it and that can also increase your chance of getting pregnant unless you are taking birth control.
2007-02-04 15:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mrs mama is correct and some of your other answers were way off. Condoms effectiveness at preventing pregnancy is only in the 80% range, not 3 out of 100 as someone said. BC pills effectiveness can be in the 90% range but also can be 100% not effective if you have to be on an antibiotic. Some other medications make BC pills ineffective as well.
There are other ways to satisfy sexual urges but oral and anal carry the risks of STDs and catching AIDS is fatal! Statistics don't help much. If you have a 10% chance of getting pregnant, how does that help you since you have no way of telling ahead of time whether you will be in the 10% or the 90%?
There are real advantages of waiting to have sex until you are married.
2007-02-04 18:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read INSTEAD.
Start with the following:
Teen Pregnancy :
- Mothers Too Soon
- A Global Tragedy
- Facing the Challenges of Teen Motherhood
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Young People Ask :
What's Wrong With Premarital Sex? ...
- What Fornication Includes
- Serious Threats
- Learning Self-Control
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2004/7/22a/article_01.htm
Youths---Let Your Parents Help You Guard Your Heart!
- Why Obey Your Parents?
- Attraction to the Opposite Sex
- The Persuasive Power of Your Peers
- Worthy of Honor (Parents) http://watchtower.org/library/w/2004/10/15/article_01.htm
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2007-02-05 15:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
condoms have been known to break and my husband has even admitted to a girl getting pregnant once from him and due to the broken condom. If he is pulling out even before he cums this will cut those chances down significantly. But of course if the condom was broken , pre-*** can always be a risk for unwanted pregnancies ( especially if he has good swimmers!!). A good friend of mine became pregnant on just pre-***.
I would advise you to carry with you , condoms that have a spermicide as well just to be safe or ask your partner if the condom as it.
if you are concerned about being pregnant, then wait about 5 days after your expected pertiod ( could be 28-35 days after the day you started your last one) and take a test. good luck
2007-02-04 15:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The mathematical odds are that You are not pregnant, merely emotionally distraught, hence the 'funny' sensations. Be that as it may, You still run the very great risk of becoming pregnant if You do not take suitable precautions Yourself, i.e., "The Pill". If You want to be sexually active, then be both sexually aware, and sexually sophisticated to take charge of Your future. Get some serious advise from Your Doctor or a mature female that You trust with Your secrets. Don't rely on the opinions or answers That You receive from total strangers on the Internet. Good luck.
2007-02-04 17:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, with perfect use of condoms (never having sex without one, and using them correctly), about 3 out of 100 women will get pregnant in a year. So, that's not too bad. With typical use of a condom (not wearing one everytime, or using it incorrectly), about 14 out of 100 women will become pregnant within a year. If you're really worried, get put on birth-control. If you use condoms perfectly, there's not a big chance of conception at all. So, just make sure you use a condom EVERY time. One mistake and you could get pregnant. If you're smart about it, it shouldn't happen though.
2007-02-04 15:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by ~the unforgiven~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex is a huge responsibility. Bigger than a teen can handle. Are you ready for a baby, STD or abortion? All of these possibilities are real when you are having sex. The only guarantee is to abstain from having sex. Go to school, get your education so that you will be prepared when the time comes for you and your HUSBAND to have a baby. Get priorities straight.
2007-02-04 17:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by karen_crawl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to be pregnant then you really shouldn't be doing it at all. no form of bc is 100 % including condoms. But if you are going to have sex anyway then you should be on some kind of bc and using condoms.
2007-02-04 16:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by medleyc1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be very unlikely for you to get pregnant if he is wearing a condom
2007-02-05 00:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by ?Sherbear ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋