people dont diss me on my spelling!
ok i just posted a thing saying the same thing and no one is helping me they are just being wicked mean about the fact that i cant spell!
so lets try this again
Im 15. Im pregnate. it was my first time and YES we did use a condom, it broke, just my luck. and my boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 and 2 months so it was time to take it further. im not 100% sure that im pregnate him and i are going to get a test tomarow and see but i havent had my period in 2 months so i kno i am. just tell me what i should do please.
2007-02-04 15:16:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
1 or 2 months of dating does not qualify as a reason to have sex. teenage pregnanc irritates me becasue the government will pay for the baby. you don't have an education so a good job is out of the question. there is a reason people wait until they are older to have sex. pray you're not pregnant for your sake. babies are great i am pregnant myself but i'm 25 with a great job and still unsure on how i can afford it. if you are just make sure to finish school.
2007-02-04 15:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by TONI 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well hun I am sorry to hear that some people on here are so mean but this is a really something you need to be talkin to your parents abot no matter how scared you might be, I know it is scary and it is a very big decition but my youngest sister went thru the same thing but at 14 yrs old she made the decition to keep her child and she and the her boyfriend are now raising a 19 month old little girl and a 6 month old little girl it is very difficult I am not going to lie to you and alot of people are going to have an opinion on what you should do with your body your child and your life but it is exactly that YOUR DECITION many young mothers have gone on to lead happy loving lives. Hopefully uyou have a strong support system at home and they will stand by any decition you make which is the case in my baby sister we were dissappointed with the situation at first but she realized it was a mistake she had made and was willing to live up to it it is hard for her with raising 2 little girls and attending school plus trying to get a part time job to try and make supporting her girls easier but she has said if could go back in time she would of chose to wait till she was older she is now 16 1/2 yrs old and is a very good mother it happened thru trial and error but she has learned to take advice and to just love her girls...... Hun I hope you are not pregnant butif you are dont allow anyone to judge you or make you feel ashamed of your situation learn from it and do what is bet for you if you have ny questions or just need someone to talk to feel free to email me and I would gladly put you in contact with my baby sister she has been more then willing to help other young girls who are now in her position.......Good Luck and remember your parents love you unconditionlly they ay be hurt and dissappointed but in the end you are still their little girl....
2007-02-04 23:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by shell b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mean 1 yr and 2 months? Anyway, these type of questions are all opinions rather than answers and since none of us know every detail of your situation it is hard to tell you the exact steps you should take. However, if you are pregnant I would suggest telling your parents immediately and go from there. Whether your parents are involved makes a big difference in what you should do. (It's too late to criticize if you are pregnant so I'm not for sure what that's supposed to accomplish now.) If you are pregnant and decide to keep the baby rather than put it up for adoption, make sure you understand what you are undertaking. It will be your responsibility to make sure it is cared for so that means that you and/or your boyfriend will need to get a job that will help support the baby, etc. Whatever you decide to do make sure that you think out all of the options and it would be great for you and your boyfriend to discuss the options with a trusted adult friend/parent or a counselor b/c they will be able to help you understand what each option consists of to make sure there are no misunderstandings. Also, please take all of our answers with a grain of salt b/c we do not know you or exactly what your situation is.
2007-02-04 23:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if your not 100% sure that you are pregnant then why are you stating that you are 15 and pregnant?
1-2 months does not mean you have to have sex. I made my boyfriend (now husband) wait almost a year into dating before we had sex but unlike alot of girls i had sense to get on birth control.
If i were to have gotten pregnant in my teens i would have had an abortion because being a teenager is too young to have a baby. I think teenage pregnancy is a shame.
Say good bye to your life now if you are pregnant. Have fun having to grow up faster than you had too. You will be grounded now for 18+ years. Think about your options if you are not ready to take on a baby and you should not rely on your parents to do it for you cause your the one who done this to yourself by not going and getting put on birth control.
2007-02-05 05:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your sure you are pregnant usually the first step would be to tell your parents number one your going to need insurance and usually your parents insuarnce don't cover they're childs pregnancy so this would mean you need to get state insurance through your state insurance program and then you will need to get yourself signed up for wic ( woman infant children ) because you can recieve help from them with like milk eggs cheese cereal and just some other things that are helpful to get while your pregnant and then once your baby is born the baby will get formula for free threw them which at 15 you will need because your odviously not yet old enough to work i would expect that your probably scared because you don't know what the father will end up doing staying or leaving and then your probably afraid of what your parents will say or do all i know is i didn't tell my mom i was pregnant till i was 5 months pregnant because i thought she would go nuts kick me out never speak to me again all kinds of things but she was very calm and very very helpful and right now you need all the help you can get because having a baby is a hard thing especially one someone at 15 not just physically stressful but emotionally so i would recommend telling someone a school counsler or teacher a grandparent or parent someone your close with who will help you to find all the resources your going to need to educate yourself on how to become a parent at such a young age ok i hope that help a little bit and if you have anymore questions you can ask another question or contact me personally
2007-02-04 23:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by BABYGURL 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should take responsibility for your actions. It was your choice to have sex, knowing that a baby is possible. This child has been given to you for a reason, its now your job to do your very best and give that child the life it deserves. Dont have an abortion, you will regret it forever, and it could hurt your chances of having a baby when you are older. Adoption is an option, if you really dont think you can give this baby a good life and love it. Step up. You are going to have to work hard, and do a lot of things that 15 year olds dont do, but you know what? You CHOSE to have sex. You now have to deal with the "consequences". Love this baby with all your heart. If your boyfriend leaves you, forget about him, he doesnt deserve you or your child. If you need someone to talk to, IM me at starsalso@yahoo.com I have a lot of friends who became moms while they were young, one of them was nine years old and had a daughter because her dad raped her. I am a daughter of a young single mother, and I myself became a mom at 19 years old. You CAN do this.
2007-02-04 23:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when does dating for 2 months at the age of 15 dictate that you have to "take it further?" You need to put the baby up for adoption. You don't have good judgment. You don't have the capability of proving a secure life for a child.
And no, you can't spell--and there is a spell check on the question page. Focus on your education, its the only way to get ahead in life.
2007-02-04 23:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you are pregnant make sure to make a doctors appointment with an OBGYN as soon as possible. Prenatal care is very important with a teen pregnancy. They will also be able to give you plenty of information that you need. Also your local health department can be very helpful too. I wish you the most luck. Don't let unimportant people bring you down. You deserve the best no matter what situation you are in. Also I just read the answers. Do not let people pressure you into anything! you need to think about it yourself. People should be helping, not critisizing!! They do not know your situation.
2007-02-04 23:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by tasha 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hun.... your contradicting your words! you just said all in one sentence that you and your boyfriend have only been together for a month or 2 but you havent had you period in 2 months. So how do you think your pregnant? Unless you got your timing wrong!!!
2007-02-04 23:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by missjewl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a test and talk to your mom or dad who ever you feel more comfortable with BTW for the furture 1 or 2 months isn't time to move forward
2007-02-04 23:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Spank M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋